Have you ever had someone - known or complete stranger - do something so random or quirky or cute that you were completely charmed? What was it?
Alright I'll say it, quirky is attractive to me.
Shyness and stumbling over words is quirky to me. I find it cute. It's the too smooth guys I don't care much for. I once had a guy trick me into giving my number to him. He was that slick. That smoothness doesn't work for me...
a few years ago i dated a guy who would text me haikus all the time. but instead of saying, "Hey, why don't you come over for dinner at 6" he'd send me something like this:
when the clock strikes six
with an appetite you'll come
and dinner will be served.
i don't know if he knew (or i told him) that i love haikus, but he constantly sent them. it was incredibly endearing.
it was wonderfully weird.
but i'm weird, so naturally i loved it.
a few years ago i dated a guy who would text me haikus all the time. but instead of saying, "Hey, why don't you come over for dinner at 6" he'd send me something like this:
when the clock strikes six
with an appetite you'll come
and dinner will be served.
i don't know if he knew (or i told him) that i love haikus, but he constantly sent them. it was incredibly endearing.
it was wonderfully weird.
but i'm weird, so naturally i loved it.
I love these stories! I finally thought of one for myself. It would be the last date I went on, in December. He brought a jigsaw puzzle with him. After we had lunch, he took me to a park and we sat at a picnic table out by the water and did our puzzle together. It was the most random, quirky thing I've ever done with anyone, and it was charming.
The man who asked me to smell his hair on the elevator was very quirkly. I didn't know whether to laugh or be a little creeped out.
Then again, the guy whose shirt I sniffed in the cologne department at the mall probably thought the same about me, so...![]()
oops....quirky, not "quirkly"![]()
Ahhhh, I love men who wears cologne, they take my breath away especially if I like the cologne!!![]()
Did you see Love Happens movie? You'll love the way they talk to each other then.![]()