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4 nights ago me and my son got away from an abusive relationship. I filed a resttaining order n got him arrested. I dont know what i did for him to abuse me n talk awful to my son
 
4 nights ago me and my son got away from an abusive relationship. I filed a resttaining order n got him arrested. I dont know what i did for him to abuse me n talk awful to my son

If you and your son were being abused, that's not yours or your son's fault. Nothing you or your son ever could have said or done could justify abuse towards either of you.

I'm happy you got out of there and took action. Also, welcome to CC :)
 
Y do i feel its my fault

Because that's what you've been taught by the person who abused you. Abusive people blame their actions on the victim to justify what they're doing to you, and to keep you under their control.

It was NOT your fault.