R u looking 4 a partner?

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I am to though I think its a little soon my sepperation has only been four weeks but I am the kind of man who won'ts a relationship I like marriage I am I think a good father and make a good husband sometimes though I fell a little overwhelmed? The idea of raising a little girl by my self is not what I had in mind. So yes if my previous wife does'ent won't the job I guess I will find someone who does. Difference is this time I wait on the Lord to dirrect me to that right match,and not go it on my own!
 
I am so very eager to have a Godly, beautiful, woman of integrity as my wife, but I also know that I'm not ready yet. There's a chapter in my life that has to be closed first, and then I can move forward.
 
yes .. I feel I am ready for a relationship too.. it is just hard to find a strong Christian guy where I live!
But I am waiting in God for that :)
 
Just about the time I think I'm ready...I realize I'm not :) I have been divorced 1 1/2 years, and I'm just scared to death of finding Mr. Wrong again. I have 2 precious daughters that I love so much - I won't compromise on any of my standards this time around. My girls deserve the best step-dad ever, and if he is out there - God will send him to me.
 
singleparent said:
I am to though I think its a little soon my sepperation has only been four weeks but I am the kind of man who won'ts a relationship I like marriage I am I think a good father and make a good husband sometimes though I fell a little overwhelmed? The idea of raising a little girl by my self is not what I had in mind. So yes if my previous wife does'ent won't the job I guess I will find someone who does. Difference is this time I wait on the Lord to dirrect me to that right match,and not go it on my own!
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Yeah same here, I don't like being alone long, I miss the little things and big things of a relationship, I also plan this time to let the Lord lead me because my marriage had all the signs of a "do it myself" job and I certainly don't want that again...
 
Everone need to have a helpmate,of some sort I've been married 2 x and will not marry again.
But to have a group of christians around you (like a family) THIS to me is better than marriage.


I wish you the best in your Quest
 
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I'm waiting for the one God has prepared for me. I'm being so anxious these days because almost all my friends are married/ going to get married in the coming year, so I tried to look for a partner on the dating sites. I don't know if it's right and it seems that I'm losing my faith in God but I'm so desperate and I don't seem to attract any guy... And even though I tried to communicate with some of the "matched" singles, I know even if everything goes well, my parents are not going to accept us... I'm really sad and don't know what to do.
Please pray for me and give me some advice.
 
I am very down to earth and i have my head on straight. yes i am looking for someone who isn't a creep and wont use me or break my heart. I'm in school right now finishing up my last semester in culinary. So my focus right now is to get through it before i have or start a serious relationship. but yeah it is hard to be single. when everyone around you is getting married or they have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. makes one feel lonely. I'm not desperate by any means. (trust me if i were i would of been in a relationship already:) )
 
fc said:
I'm waiting for the one God has prepared for me. I'm being so anxious these days because almost all my friends are married/ going to get married in the coming year, so I tried to look for a partner on the dating sites. I don't know if it's right and it seems that I'm losing my faith in God but I'm so desperate and I don't seem to attract any guy... And even though I tried to communicate with some of the "matched" singles, I know even if everything goes well, my parents are not going to accept us... I'm really sad and don't know what to do.
Please pray for me and give me some advice.
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it must be hard for you fc

what religion are your parents?
 
Don't know if this is relevant, but it seems like most of the dudes don't think they're ready, and most of the ladies do. There are exceptions on both sides. Just seemed interesting to me. I don't feel like I'm ready, I feel like I'm still a kid most of the time. However, being single, I've become more responsible than many of my married peers (That is I live on my own, pay my own bills, etc. where many of my married friends live with or otherwise depend on their parents still.). But I still don't feel like I'd be a mature enough husband. Hmm? Although I don't think I'd be good at marriage, to answer the question, yes I'm looking, but not very aggressively. If I should happen to get girlfriend, then we'll see what happens from there. But I'm not exactly looking for a wife, I'm looking for candidates, and candid dates (rim shot).
 
I am defitintly not desperate but I would enter into s relationship if I found someone I am compatible with. I have had some guys who are not Christians ask me out but I do not want to date someone who is not a Christian.
 
greatkraw said:
it must be hard for you fc

what religion are your parents?
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My parents are Christians too but they won't accept the idea of finding a partner (even if he's a Christian) from an online dating site.

Yesterday, I just deleted all my accounts of the dating sites even though there were some compatible guys I was communicating with... :(

buckeyegirl700 said:
I am defitintly not desperate but I would enter into s relationship if I found someone I am compatible with. I have had some guys who are not Christians ask me out but I do not want to date someone who is not a Christian.
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Same here. There're non-Christian guys asking me out but I don't want to date someone who's not a Christian. I once dated someone who's not a Christian for 5 years but we finally broke up because he couldn't stand someone (that's me) who's a Christian.
 
fc, you are an adult

do chinese have a tradition of using matchmakers??


it is just a modern version
 
Hi there

Me i aint had a girl my whole life what is wrong with me??
 
I see people and think oh God I hope thats not him. Ha Ha! I'm not really looking but it runs past my mind is that him. I think God is going to have to smack the person right in my face or I'll keep staying alone.
 
jonnoboy said:
Me i aint had a girl my whole life what is wrong with me??
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It's cool dude I'm two years older than you, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've always been the best freind, and never the boyfriend. Any girl worth having as a girlfriend would be cool about it though.
 
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