Oh don't get all offended or down in the dumps,Ugly is just Ugly,I've had my split ways with him but he's pretty wise but yeah a bit of a blunt person often speaking his mind immediately on particularly subjects he doesn't like or feels is questionable,but well that's just "him" and I respect that,not many people do you find that will "be themselves",and as typically,he "has a point".
Like Ugly has his heart set on someone,I do too,and many single people who don't can get rather "depressed" on thinking on "what ifs" I think he's more of giving simply what he gives me often as well as others "constructive criticism" he sounds kind of "pushy" but hey he's told me before that an idea wasn't bright for a thread topic,stuck to it anyways and he didn't hinder me,like in this case I think he's genuinely "concerned" for you and the single people,because "Valentine's day" can be very good or very frustrating for some,and really I think in my humble opinion that he's just "forewarning" reactions particularly by single people because people might "get upset with you" and that's not something "anyone wants".
Me personally I don't mind either way,because well my Valentine of choice I can't say much to because she likes our friendship and I'm content with that,and she currently doesn't want mushy stuff and I agree with that because well I can't pursue her as a love interest at all for years to come,and I've already been a "complete idiot" to her so though I would like to tell her even just "I love you" again I respectfully never will until such time as "appropriations" are met and she is "comfortable" with any such words from me.
It's no hassle for me anyways to "wait" years to even see if a relationship is "possible" because well "I have noone" and "noone wants me" so really it just means years without worry of any "commitment issues" whether I get a chance to seek a relationship with her or not because with no "love life" I can "focus" on the "future" with one less obstacle out of the way in said possible future.
Though of course I know I'm just being "wishful" it's just a possibility with no real certainty of it coming true,guess that makes me a fool to some but oh well I'm a fool for God/Jesus too so I guess I'll just keep moving forward and eventually time will tell what happens if anything at all.
The only thing "certain" lately is that I'm "transforming further" my habits are changing to good ones,such as decent hygiene,(such as brushing my teeth more often)decent appearance(no wearing holed jeans from them being worn out,wearing a belt,)truth coming out from my mouth more for God/Jesus(speaking up more often on what is right particularly with relatives)even when I'm upset I don't curse but I do get aggressive in speech when speaking on God/Jesus,God's word or what is morally/biblically right as opposed to my typical less proned to speaking up demeanor,and I don't get upset or stressed or scattered brained as I use to and a clearer view on what my dreams and goals are.