Then what is this discussion for? Each of does what we feel is right, and honoring God.... and we don't need to try to lay a burden of following our example upon anyone else. Why do others even have to know we are doing whatever we feel is something we need to do?
The discussion of weather we help someone out or keep the Feasts hasn't been the issue.
It's a slippery slope to say,"Each of us does what we feel is right, and honoring God....."