I can see how people would feel like its okay to tell their kids that 'harmless' idea about santa clause for fun... but it isn't harmless. The kids become dissapointed when they find out and I'm sure they wonder why their parent would tell them a myth. That's how I would feel. My parents specifically my mom told me from day 1 there was no santa clause because she didn't want to lie to us. I am glad she did and i'll do the same with my kids. I don't like false hope. She did say there was a saint nick a longgg time ago and explain a little of him. Why does there have to be a santa? Why can't you just say Jesus gave them those presents? Jesus gives us all that we have. And he's real! On easter its about Jesus as well yet people want to believe in the easter bunny. It's jesus people! What's wrong with that? I am sure the kids will be mrore greatful that you told them of someone real, that they are having things provided to them because of him.