Sex Before Marriage

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jandian

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I really like your name....
 
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The thing with the no sex before marriage rule is it either
1. screws people over who never get married
2. or causes people to want to marry just so they can have sex

In my opinion I think its better to have sex outside of marriage than make a lifelong commitment and break it just cause you wanted to have sex.
We are supposed to resist temptation.
 
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needmesomejesus

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We are supposed to resist temptation.

I'm not saying either is right. I'm just saying its better to have premarital sex than to break a promise to God and everyone else.
 
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The thing with the no sex before marriage rule is it either
1. screws people over who never get married
2. or causes people to want to marry just so they can have sex

In my opinion I think its better to have sex outside of marriage than make a lifelong commitment and break it just cause you wanted to have sex.
When we resist temptation, we have peace.

When we don’t resist temptation, we have trouble. That trouble can be extremely huge if the sin is big enough.
 
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#66
The thing with the no sex before marriage rule is it either
1. screws people over who never get married
2. or causes people to want to marry just so they can have sex

In my opinion I think its better to have sex outside of marriage than make a lifelong commitment and break it just cause you wanted to have sex.
When Jesus told us not to have sex before marriage, he had a reason. He wasn’t just talking to hear himself talk.

It is our responsibility to obey him. It is for our own good. When temptation arises, we are to make the effort to resist it.
 
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needmesomejesus

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#67
When Jesus told us not to have sex before marriage, he had a reason. He wasn’t just talking to hear himself talk.

It is our responsibility to obey him. It is for our own good. When temptation arises, we are to make the effort to resist it.

You're right.
 
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#68
The thing with the no sex before marriage rule is it either
1. screws people over who never get married
2. or causes people to want to marry just so they can have sex

In my opinion I think its better to have sex outside of marriage than make a lifelong commitment and break it just cause you wanted to have sex.
It takes some effort to be a Christian. We must resist selfish behavior.
 
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needmesomejesus

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When we resist temptation, we have peace.

When we don’t resist temptation, we have trouble. That trouble can be extremely huge if the sin is big enough.

true. Then it becomes our problem and if we choose to disobey we have to choose to receive the consequence.