sex before marriage??

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Yes it's a sin. Otherwise what's the point in marriage? How is marriage any different than dating if you have sex in both situations?

Besides, it's just more romantic to wait.
 
Sex is the physical beginning of marriage. Every teenager that has sex then breaks up with the one that doesn't want to break up, is putting away their spouse without reason.

And it almost always happens, so don't put yourself in the position to be that victim.
 
I am agree have sex before mariage..Will not bring you in happy marriages .
Honestly,me and my ex- husband have sex before mariage, because we stay in Singapore for study.
and after we have relationship in 4 years im marriage with him, but after that I found the demands in our sexual relationships..My ex-husband addicted to pornography and cyber sex with woman in cyber...

so, can u imagine what i feel ? and finaly when im in marriage with him 4 years, my husband want a divorce from me. I tried to beg him not to leave me. but my husband's desire for a divorce can not be prevented., my husband want divorce from me, because he want marry with another man...

but when I know it all, I ask for strength from God toforgive HIM

And finally i just want to say, do not have sex before marriage
 
Yes, it is a sin. The Bible explains that a man shall marry a woman and then become one with her. Please don't do that until you are married because that is what God wants us to do. If you don't wait, there are repercussions. Think about your wedding night and how wonderful it's going to feel knowing that you waited for your husband. I personally think it's the most beautiful gift you can give your spouse. So do the right thing and wait! :D
 
Yes it's a sin. You have been wait so long, you can wait until marriage. And there is a good thing in it: more you wait more your desire grows so that when the right moment will come, your unity will be wonderful.
May God help you to stand up to temptation.
 
sizzling said:
Good Morning.

I know that sex before marriage is wrong but what if you have already started engaging in sex? is it too late to repent? and because me and my boyfriend are sexualy active already, would it be hard for us to stop? is oral sex also a sin or can we rather have oral sex instead of sex?

Stay Blessed
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Yes all kind of sex is a sin, oral too but it's never late to repent. God knows what is in your heart. Open your heart to him, ask him to forgive him sincerely promising you won't ever cause Him pain. That's all. You'll feel His forgiveness coming into you, you will feel His peace in you.
 
Also, sex before marriage is adultery, because every intimacy outside of marriage is adultery. Common misconception is to think that adultery is between a married person and a non married person or is between two married persons only,
so that would leave room for the carnal " do what thou wilt " before marriage, but it's not so.
Every intimacy before marriage is also adultery. And fornication also means adultery.
Fornication IS adultery.

Do not do that, and you'll be fine, by the Lord's Wisdom.
 
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Oral sex means oral fornication, and oral fornication means oral adultery.
Don't be fooled by the crafty tricks of the ancient serpent...
 
mistyrain said:
Is sex before marriage a sin? If you are in a long term relationship even? I have been in a serious relationship for more than four years and this is something I have been wondering about for a while...I don't want to go against God
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Yes, it's a sin. Sex before marriage isn't what God intended and it's His gift to married couples.
 
It is NOT to late to repent as long as God has enabled us to be alive here on earth. Everyday offers an opporunity for repentance. Oral sex is sin. Sex before marriage is SIN; the bible speaks clearly about this. The church is not suppose to copy the perverse behaviors we now see happening in the world. I would refer you to this link to get more revelation-http://eternal-destinations.blogspot.co.ke/search?q=marriage
 
mistyrain said:
Is sex before marriage a sin? If you are in a long term relationship even? I have been in a serious relationship for more than four years and this is something I have been wondering about for a while...I don't want to go against God :(
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Make sure you understand 1 Corinthians 7. No just the first few verses
 
Lol yes it is a sin
Fornication.
if the man doesn't wanna marry you but still wants to get some then leave him. and focus on God
through prayer and fasting God will bring you the correct man who will not want to make you a fornicator , but a woman of God.
My husband and I met in the world. and we did fornicate but once we knew we wanted to devote to God 100% we stopped until we got married.
you don't wanna be caught in fornication when God comes. so be careful and decide quickly whether your salvation or boyfriend is more important. (not saying that you said he was. lol. I'm just saying)
 
The proper way to do it is to wait, which is why so many Christians marry at a young age. Who wants to wait 30 yrs before they have sex? And what if the sex isn't good? I have no problem with dipping your foot in the water before going for the swim but than again I was a virgin before I got married so I have nothing to compare my situation to. When the bible was written the life expectancy was much lower so its wasn't like you had to wait long, you were probably married or dead by the time you were 30 anyway.
 
Yes, it makes us "unclean" according to Jesus. See Mark 7. The more important question is why are you or your partner not willing to make a clear commitment to one another, for that is true love...
 
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