Shey_Shey13's 2015

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in jan of 2015 i was living in Salt Lake City, utah and in a 2 yr relationship with a man that asked me to marry him but didn't get my engagement ring and he was explaining to me that he wanted to make sure that we would never fight before we would go on. during the relationship he ripped me away from my family, wouldn't allow me to have friends and kicked me out the his house at lease 2 times a yr. which happened again in april but we did see each other every so often but then come august i had a wonderful job about to move back in with him and a week before my 30 days was up on my apt i got laid off my job and me and him kept on fighting then finally i got so angry with him i had to get at lease a weekend away from him and while i was gone we both where thinking about if this where going to work or not. so the day before i was going to talk to him i called my mom and told her i was going to be coming down to vegas to talk to her to seek advice and when i got home i talk to him and he ended it with me so i moved to vegas so now being 23 yrs old no job scrapping by with rent and everything and feel so emotionally lost i cant even believe. how am i suppose to heal from this when i gave everything to this man litterally?
 
It's pretty cliche to say that time heals all wounds (it doesn't), but it's fair to say things get better with time if you allow yourself to heal. I don't think you gave him everything, but in any case, let him have the last two years, and you take 2016 for yourself. :)

Hang in there, Shey. A lot of us have been through some tough break ups, but speaking from my own experience, the love and loss has made me a better person.
 
Hi Shey_shey i can totally relate to your story. I was almost married twice at a young age (18& 21) I guess i was so scared of burning with desires that I considered marriage so young so that i wont sin. I didnt have the best relationship with my mother, so at the age of 17 Iwas already living on my own while i studied full time @ community collage; but things got complicated where i was forced to move out of the apt and of course my bf at the time welcomed me with open arms; but thank God for our youth pastor who opened the doors of her home to me at such vulnerable moment. Anyhow dont want to make my story too long.. I just turned 24 a few days ago and nope, not married or in a relationship;Just being patient as i too felt like so many pieces of me were ripped out! Literally! But in those lowest moments is where i just cried my soul out to God and Found that unconditional love of Christ.. I am still scraping my knees now, WHO ISNT?! But shutting myself in my room as i lay flat on the bare ground in surrender to God as i worship him and conversate with him has allowed me to taste THAT GRACE! That JOY! That COMPLETENESS!

2 Cor 12:9 "My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness."

I have been independent for 4 yrs now and God has continously provided through a great job where ive already obtained my 2 promotion. But the best part of my life is that i am part of a youth ministry where i can use my testimony to inspire young ppl to keep pushing. GOD HASNT CHANGED HIS MIND ABOUT YOU!

Blessings :)
 
Shey you will be so surprised to know that your not alone! Just remember there is no Testimony without a TEST; Satan only attacks those who pose a threat to his kingdom.. Let this experience make you stronger as you let God heal you completely.. And most importantly FORGIVE.. Even if its hard just take that step of faith FOR YOU! for if you do not forgive your heavenly father cannot forgive you... according to his word.

Xox
 
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