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you can be yourself, cut up be witty, smart, confident and funny around men you have no interest in...and they all find you extremely attractive and wonder why you are still single..
but when you get around a man you are attracted to, you turn 16 and get all shy and lose your thoughts, can't speak and just are embarrassingly awkward?
I know that myself and many of my single friends are this way and it's ridonkulous..it's almost involuntary!
Also, some of my single friends and I admit that when we see an attractive man look our way, instead of smiling we turn our heads really fast..or just look away..
I get looked at alot and the first thing I think is "whats wrong with me" but sometimes if I think "that man is looking at me like he is attracted,.. look away!!" and I do..
I think sometimes I am afraid he is married or something and I don't want to flirt with a married man..
but other times I just guess I am afraid i will have to actually talk to him if I smile at him..
gosh.. is it just me and my group of single women? or do any of you feel this way too..
if not? how do you go about safely flirting and letting men know you are approachable..without feeling as if you are being too alluring..
but when you get around a man you are attracted to, you turn 16 and get all shy and lose your thoughts, can't speak and just are embarrassingly awkward?
I know that myself and many of my single friends are this way and it's ridonkulous..it's almost involuntary!
Also, some of my single friends and I admit that when we see an attractive man look our way, instead of smiling we turn our heads really fast..or just look away..
I get looked at alot and the first thing I think is "whats wrong with me" but sometimes if I think "that man is looking at me like he is attracted,.. look away!!" and I do..
I think sometimes I am afraid he is married or something and I don't want to flirt with a married man..
but other times I just guess I am afraid i will have to actually talk to him if I smile at him..
gosh.. is it just me and my group of single women? or do any of you feel this way too..
if not? how do you go about safely flirting and letting men know you are approachable..without feeling as if you are being too alluring..