Please try not to be impatient, for we all hate standing in line...
God's timing is extraordinary. Look at King Saul, he was so impatient all the time. He did his own sacrifices because he would not wait for Samuel. He went to seers because he himself was distant from God. It kind of cost him everything.
I guess this also begs to examine Obedience which may need to go into another thread. But pretty much all of the things God did using Elisha were executed with perfect obedience. Naaman was washed clean by obedience and faith. In your second illustration the man who was 6 years older than his wife, heard and knew. BUT it was his faithful obedience that was a testimony to God's plan and purpose with his life. He did not seize control and hesitate to follow God, like Jonah. Wah wah wah....
I've been digging into the realization that Obedience comes from hearing God and not hesitating or questioning but obeying. David when Nathan told him of his sin IMMEDIATE fell before his God admitted his sin. He was obedient to God even when the firstborn of Bathsheba was taken by God. He did not give up.
The prime example of the kind of obedience I get really excited about is with Peter. Peter was human and struggles with all the same stuff we do.
Matthew 14:27-32
27 But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”
28 “Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”
29 “Come,” he said.
Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. 30 But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”
31 Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith,” he said, “why did you doubt?”
32 And when they climbed into the boat, the wind died down. 33 Then those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.”
For me one of the biggest keys to this is that Peter asked to be commanded by Jesus. He asked to given the opportunity to be obedient. But even in this he stumbles sees the storm and doubts. As he is sinking he cries out to Jesus to save him and Jesus does.
PRAISE GOD!!!