Sleeping in the same bed with your bf/gf?

[SamIam]

I cant stay in a hammock alone, more or less have anyone else get in there with me..... no matter how hard i try.. i end up falling out

 

[AlaynaJ]

I love hammocks... I usually don't have too many problems getting in them... Getting out on the other hand, it's a whole 'nother story...

 

[chelsers]

"it looks like you're trying to start a family!" haha. His stuff cracks me up.

I love when he whispers and says what the crowd is thinking.

 

[SamIam]

I love hammocks... I usually don't have too many problems getting in them... Getting out on the other hand, it's a whole 'nother story...

i tend to just rooooll right out of them lol

 

[AlaynaJ]

Chase, You're fired, because I never see you in the room anymore, and you don't have a visitors comment thing on your profile.

 

[Kakashi]

Chase, You're fired, because I never see you in the room anymore, and you don't have a visitors comment thing on your profile.

1) true, because chat function does not work for me because my connection stinks

2) yes-huh, I enabled my visitor comment thingy last week! Post away mah dear!

 

[amorelife]

I think it's possible. As long as both of the people want the same things. My best friend has been with her boyfriend for almost 2 years in Nov and she's lived with him for most of it. They sleep in the same bed, and are both virgins. I mean I guess it depends on the self control of each person also.

 

[Groundwire123]

I don't believe a bf/gf can do that without it leading to sex. And if they can, it means they probably arent in love.

That is an amazing way to look at it. Absolutely true. Not only is sex between a man and woman and to wait until marriage, but I am sure the bible can back me up on this, "one bed and room for the guy, and one bed and room or the girl". As boyfriend and girlfriend, you should keep some serious physical distance between the to of you.

 

[Groundwire123]

I think it would be ok. As long as you are both on the same page about no sex before marriage. I think its going a little far saying that if you can sleep in the same bed without having sex means your not in love. I think it would be possable. As long as you have a back up plan for those times when temptation is knocking on the door like someone goes to sleep on the couch! lol

Not trying to say anyone is wrong here. I just want to point out the bible tells us to stay away from the things that do bring temptation. I know someone who was in the very same situation. Loved his girl, slept with his girl saying to him and his mate "absolutely no sex". That lasted 1hr and 45 min before he found him self practicing..... well I think that enough detail.

 

[WENSPI]

I don't see a problem in that.

 

[Sharp]

I don't see a problem in that.

You're not looking hard enough.

 

[WENSPI]

I think I do, For me is that simple, if you feel temptated or not. lol

 

[Kakashi]

I think I do, For me is that simple, if you feel temptated or not. lol

If you have a heartbeat and have an attraction, in that situation, there's temptation.

 

[cacordell1]

i'm not sure it's a good idea. i believe there is too much temptation there.

 

[Sharp]

What if a non-Christian heard about what was going on? How would they know that we are different from the world? They wouldn't. They'd think Christians are just like everyone else, and we're not. Well, we're not supposed to be anyway.

 

[J0Y]

sleeping in the same bed with your g/f or b/f.....seriously??? I mean, thats like giving an alcoholic a beer and saying 'just look at it'
TEMPTATION alley here...
sooner or later, just like the alcoholic...a sip may come....
Check the Bible for more on temptation and how it says we should RUN from it

 

[J0Y]

OH, and I also want to affirm what Sharp said up there ^^^^
Christians are to be in the world but not OF it....salt and light....becoming Christlike...etc...
What message is that sending to 'the world' around us?