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leapfrogger
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You're too young to be worrying about this. Go out and have some fun and go crazy in your singleness. Seek God in all that you do. In fact just plain go crazy period. I do it on a regular basis.
So how do I gain self confidence?
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Yeah, but what if God doesn't give me a girl.
Then He will have a different gift for you that could be even better! What we want isn't always the best gift for us.
My other problem is that I don't really know how to make friends(guys or girls) in real life. Or really how to just have fun with other people in life.
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Are you in college? If you are, there are a lot of clubs where people who enjoy these things gather together to hang. I know when I was at UBC, a lot of guys and girls would hang out at the arcade. I hear there were CS, DoD, and other competitions from time to time as well. You can also try new activities. I met some new friends from learning sailing and kayaking. It sounds daunting at first but it's pretty fun.
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greatkraw
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I have had cause to take another look at this issue.
Amazing how we know things but forget what we have learnt.
The Biblical model is that the man has a relationship with God and is engaged in his life's work. Then God brings along the woman who is to be a helper suitable for him.
See Adam and Isaac
It is important that you feel comfortable around women so just make a habit of befriending them without any ulterior motives.
We are all human beings.
Amazing how we know things but forget what we have learnt.
The Biblical model is that the man has a relationship with God and is engaged in his life's work. Then God brings along the woman who is to be a helper suitable for him.
See Adam and Isaac
It is important that you feel comfortable around women so just make a habit of befriending them without any ulterior motives.
We are all human beings.
I got an idea. Get on the webcam in chat. Have fun. Fool around. Best way to gain self confidence dude. I notice you just sit in chat and dont say anything. That wont get you anywhere.
Yeah that's true, I ususally just watch on what's going on or listen while I'm programming, playing video games, or doing homework. But yeah, I should try that...