So how would you ask a girl to goto a Bible study with you?

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dothackzero

dothackzero

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Okay, so there's this girl that I haven't talked to in a few months, but I do still have her phone number. Would it be normal to just call her, and talk to her a little bit and just invite her to Bible study even if I've never called her before. Though she did give her phone number.
 
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dothackzero said:
Okay, so there's this girl that I haven't talked to in a few months, but I do still have her phone number. Would it be normal to just call her, and talk to her a little bit and just invite her to Bible study even if I've never called her before. Though she did give her phone number.
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Perfect love casts out all fear...& that includes doubt. If your intentions are pure,there's no need to be hesitant. Just call her up & ask how she's been,wanted to touch bases with you,say hello...yadda yadda...then ask her if she'd be interested in going to the bible study with you. Easy Peasy. She says no thanks,then hey...you tried..no skin off yer' back.:) But...yanno...she may say yessssssssssssssssssss pick me up at 7 MR. dothackzero!
 
don't be intimidated just because she's not a guy. Girls are not a separate species. Follow iTORE's advice. You can ask her and know you did the right thing even if she says no, or you can not ask and kick yourself in the head.
 
Example, Hey name its name Have a small conversation then look im going to a bible study later would you like to go?

Fairly simple, try not to mention your porn addiction
 
even if she says no, don't give up, she might just be busy that night.......however if she gives you "the creep get lost vibe", then you should give up calling her...................personally if she gave you her number (and its her actual number) than I think she would love it if you called, even if its a few months later. :) it shows you are thinking about her and that normally makes girls feel special. :)
 
The question is are you really wanting to go to bible study or do you just want to spend time with her? Why not just ask her out on a date if your interested?
 
You:Dials her number.
*phone rings*
*she answers*
Her: Hello?
You: Bible study. 6pm. Be ready.
 
1still_waters said:
You:Dials her number.
*phone rings*
*she answers*
Her: Hello?
You: Bible study. 6pm. Be ready.
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If I knew the guy and liked him I actually think I might enjoy such a direct approach. lol

If I didn't know him or like him or have his number I'd freak out.
 
leelee said:
If I knew the guy and liked him I actually think I might enjoy such a direct approach. lol
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key word KNEW the guy.

Now imagine a strange guy calling you forgot about months ago calling and doing that.. after the hangup im sure 99.9% of women would call 911 (i have a crazy stalker after me!)
 
wisebeardman said:
key word KNEW the guy.

Now imagine a strange guy calling you forgot about months ago calling and doing that.. after the hangup im sure 99.9% of women would call 911 (i have a crazy stalker after me!)
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I know it was the key word which I why I pointed that out in the rest of my post. :)
 
wisebeardman said:
got to cut me a little slack.. its 21:30 here and i wont be fully awake for another few hours..
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its 0130 here and I got up at 7 and have I have dashed around town all morning sorting out everything for the bank holidays then did a nursing shift which I only finished at 2130, I am now heading to bead to do the same again tomorrow. No slack pal! Besides, I like to take the opportunity to point out my rightness. Its fun.
 
leelee said:
its 0130 here and I got up at 7 and have I have dashed around town all morning sorting out everything for the bank holidays then did a nursing shift which I only finished at 2130, I am now heading to bead to do the same again tomorrow. No slack pal! Besides, I like to take the opportunity to point out my rightness. Its fun.
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But I am a night person. I am also slow moving. I don't get to 100% till about 01:00 and it don't last to long.
 
koalas sleep for up to 22hours a day because their food doesn't provide enough energy. I don't know if they are nocturnal but it was the not lasting long I was referring too.
 
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