someone to talk to without judgement

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I have had a really messed up life, and it seems I make one bad decision after another. Sometimes you just need to unload and vent and get a perspective or someone you don't know.
 
I know how you feel and am a listening ear if you need one
 
When I was a child from a very young as me and my three sisters where all sexually abused by a family member. Nothing was ever done and we never received any counseling and I happened for years. When the people that are supposed to pretext you are the very ones hurting you, it really screws your head up. Now at the age of 27 I look at my life and I can't seem to make sense of anything. I got pregnant at 15 married at 15 divorced at 24. And i make one terrible decision after another.
 
:( I'm so sorry for what you've gone through!! Things that we go through in life can be so damaging and emotionally draining. Don't let any bad decision you've made or anything from your past determine your future! The devil will always try to steal your joy and your life. But you are God's righteousness and are pleasing to God! :D He has great plans for you! Think like Paul when he said, "Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."! You're in my prayers and if you ever need to talk, message me anytime :)
-Tim
 
i would suggest you find a a qualified christian counselor. i do not mean a pastor who does counseling, but a trained and licensed counselor. if there is a salvation army corps or social service facility in your area they might have some suggestions. i'm praying for you.
 
stoprunning said:
I have had a really messed up life, and it seems I make one bad decision after another. Sometimes you just need to unload and vent and get a perspective or someone you don't know.
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By saying "messed up life" or having made "bad decision after another" were you judging yourself as a failure, a loser, or as something else judmentally?

You are not the same in that, and I could see myself in that but, what have I lost? (what did you utterly lose?) everyday you can try to make your life better than worse. Don´t you?
 
stoprunning said:
When I was a child from a very young as me and my three sisters where all sexually abused by a family member. Nothing was ever done and we never received any counseling and I happened for years. When the people that are supposed to pretext you are the very ones hurting you, it really screws your head up. Now at the age of 27 I look at my life and I can't seem to make sense of anything. I got pregnant at 15 married at 15 divorced at 24. And i make one terrible decision after another.
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Again! I see you don´t want to forgive yourself. It is you cannot do it, it seems you are so hurt and haven´t healed those scars but keep on blaming...
 
This is heartbreaking! But really, sorry for whatever happened.
I pray that your heart would be healed indeed.
 
Hello. :) I just wanna tell you I can relate to what you're going through. And I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time. I'm here if you wanna talk. :)
 
People will judge. There is no sidestepping that. What's important is that they judge the content and not the intent.

Anyone that judges your character is almost certainly doing a disservice.

Hopefully your time here is conducive and you get some good advice/feedback. :)
 
stoprunning said:
When I was a child from a very young as me and my three sisters where all sexually abused by a family member. Nothing was ever done and we never received any counseling and I happened for years. When the people that are supposed to pretext you are the very ones hurting you, it really screws your head understandw at the age of 27 I look at my life and I can't seem to make sense of anything. I got pregnant at 15 married at 15 divorced at 24. And i make one terrible decision after another.
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Oww wow. First of all thats awful and I can see why ur still effected by it now. Know that the problems you go through. God knows them all and pitted every groan. But somtimes god allows saten to think hes winning so he can later get the glory from it. Now look at ur life now as its all ALL working for my good. We as man dont understand y these things happen because we live on this sinful earth with no devine power. Our only power comes from the father so we must be still, and KNOW that he is god. :-) god bless u
 
I'm so sorry to hear this,I know how hard life is and can be,but what your going through now,you won't always be going through this,you just have to stay strong,and believe that there's going to be hard times,but there's also going to be good times,always remember that and never ever give up.
 
you never really had the chance to experience life for what it is truly worth, the first step is this "venting, it all out", and falling into the arms of Jesus your brothers your sisters of GOD. the hardest thing you've ever had to do was(is) trust, trust is the hardest thing to get to when such a thing has happened, coming back and forth here to your brothers and sisters will ease the pain, the people you put in your life affect you greatly, in order to heal properly you must seek purity, the pure will save you, the next step is riding yourself of all impurities, what are the people you surround yourself withs' motives, GOD should be the only in your life, I am always here for you when if or
 
secularhermit said:
By saying "messed up life" or having made "bad decision after another" were you judging yourself as a failure, a loser, or as something else judmentally?

You are not the same in that, and I could see myself in that but, what have I lost? (what did you utterly lose?) everyday you can try to make your life better than worse. Don´t you?
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you should
 
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