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I was trying to explain to a guy who'd asked me out why I didn't want a boyfriend...I got flustered because he kept glaring at me (because he was totally missing my point- I didn't want a steady boyfriend, I just wanted to go on a few dates with him, to even see if it was worth the trouble...what?! I was 15. Shh...) and I ended up telling this long, rambling story about a person who kept buying pet snakes, naming them Bubba, and then they'd die, so she'd go get another one and start the whole thing again. Then she finally bought a snake, named it Melvin, and he lived. The End.

Ok, yeah, his glare was totally justified. I should have just said what I meant.
 
My BF and I regularly say stupid stuff to each other all the time, and we just laugh. We are playful and laid back so almost nothing is taken as an insult.
 
I've never had a boyfriend but I say a lot of stupid stuff. :P I'm pretty discerning and often will think a lot before I speak, but then there are other times when I just blurt stuff out. :o

I don't know if that's what you meant...maybe this is one of those instances, then. ;)
 
When my ex-wife and I were dating she asked me how hot I thought she was, when I first saw her, on a scale of 1-10...I answered honestly, and I'm going to leave it at that.
 
zaoman32 said:
When my ex-wife and I were dating she asked me how hot I thought she was, when I first saw her, on a scale of 1-10...I answered honestly, and I'm going to leave it at that.
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I always add 3, then multiply by two. It's not lying if it's self-preservation.
 
I didn't say it to a girlfriend. I said it to my wife. And I'm not so sure I would say it was "dumb". I prefer to use the word, "unwise". Okay, it may have been dumb. I told my wife I believe God sent her to me as punishment for past transgressions. I try not to say it anymore, but I continue to think it on a regular basis. Been asking for prayers in that regard. :)
 
dashadow said:
I didn't say it to a girlfriend. I said it to my wife. And I'm not so sure I would say it was "dumb". I prefer to use the word, "unwise". Okay, it may have been dumb. I told my wife I believe God sent her to me as punishment for past transgressions. I try not to say it anymore, but I continue to think it on a regular basis. Been asking for prayers in that regard. :)
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Do you sleep on the pullout couch a lot? lol (sorry)
 
This happened to me LONG ago (about 20 years).
I am not sure why it happened cause I was never a player or cheater.
My gf of the time came to wake me up. I had been sleeping in the living room at families. As she shook me to wake me up to join everyone for breakfast, I said "I have another woman but I wouldn't worry about her."
I woke up to hysterical laughter cause her and my family were in the living room when I said it. I was dazed and confused until they told me what happened.
 
zaoman32 said:
When my ex-wife and I were dating she asked me how hot I thought she was, when I first saw her, on a scale of 1-10...I answered honestly, and I'm going to leave it at that.
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No no that won't work. You've got to give her 2 separate ratings. And specify that one is the shallow hollywood perfection rating, and the other is the personal "what I think when I look at you" rating. Be honest with the first one, and of course, give the second rating a 10. :D
 
My husband told me that if Zooey Deschanel ever showed up at the door, he'd go with her in a heart beat.

I told him, "Good. Take the cats with you" because I wasn't sure if he was serious or not. Either way, it's never going to happen, so I guess I'm stuck with the cats. Oh, and my husband, too...

;)
 
Relena7 said:
No no that won't work. You've got to give her 2 separate ratings. And specify that one is the shallow hollywood perfection rating, and the other is the personal "what I think when I look at you" rating. Be honest with the first one, and of course, give the second rating a 10. :D
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I'm going to be honest, I don't think any answer is the right answer in that kind of case.
 
While i think her statement was more stupid, i got in a lot of trouble for my response. My ex-fiance told me one day 'blacks and whites shouldn't get married'. *blink blink... she said it was unbiblical. Which was ironic since her new best friend was black, 0.o
So i said 'i can't believe you think like that, thats crap'. The rest of the conversation did not go well...
 
zaoman32 said:
I'm going to be honest, I don't think any answer is the right answer in that kind of case.
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My answer would have been...no answer. I would have just pulled her tightly to me,given her a big kiss & then said.."Honey,I'm off to the store to get some toll house choc chips to make us some cookies,can I pick you up a bottle of Merlot while I'm there?" -and then ran out the door. LOL
 
iTOREtheSKY said:
My answer would have been...no answer. I would have just pulled her tightly to me,given her a big kiss & then said.."Honey,I'm off to the store to get some toll house choc chips to make us some cookies,can I pick you up a bottle of Merlot while I'm there?" -and then ran out the door. LOL
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Good idea, give her time to build up from angered to enraged, then give her sugar and alcohol to fuel it even more.. good thinking =P
 
Or you could just say something about having good taste since you chose her. Although now, you may not think so.
 
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