Song of Songs

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On the Song of songs, I was just thinking...


Of all the wonders of creation, the relationship between a man and a woman who marry is the most sublime for us, ...being completely delightful, encompassing, satisfying and consummating.

Powerful and beautiful dynamics increase continually, making love continually richer, without limit.

This huge and greatest gem in the treasure of wonders God has given us takes its rightful place in scripture, in the Song of Songs.

Of course God is exremely interested in our relationships, and has something to say to us in love, to help and instruct us.

The song has a worthy place in scriptures.

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The song is the story of two lovers, the Shulamite and The Beloved.

(The Shulamite is a Palestinian young woman. Her name comes from 'Salem' -- the old name for Jerusalem.)

In their own words, in beautiful phrases, and through a series of scenes, the song is of their love -- coming together, coming closer and closer together; until they enter into a relationship exclusiveto eachother, to emerge to go into the world in union and power.

Their words ring with all the sincerety, truth and love of pure love.

The Lord presents to us an ideal.

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When we see it is an ideal, we see much God wants to present to us.

As it is lyrics, each detail is figurative. ...Each detail for our two loving ones represents, in poetry, something the Lord wants for each of us.

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The song starts with some banners (or headlines)

THE SHULAMITE

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth -- for your (...male) love is better than wine.

Because of the fragrance of your good ointments, your name is ointment poured forth; therefore the virgins love you.

Draw me away!

THE DAUGHTERS OF JERUSALEM

We will run after you. (male)

THE SHULAMITE

The king has brought me into his chambers.

THE DAUGHTERS OF JERUSALEM

We will be glad and rejoice in you. (female)

We will remember your love (male) more than wine.

...Quite a lovely and excited introduction, full of joy and fun.

(It would easy and fun to write this in modern up-to-the-minute language.) :)

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Then the Shulamite introduces herself.

I am dark, but lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, like the tents of Kedar, like the curtains of Solomon. Do not look upon me, because I am dark, because the sun has tanned me. My mother's sons were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyuards, but my own vineyard I have not kept.

And then a little exchange -- the first exchange -- between the two loving ones. which may or may not be a little snapshot of their first meeting, but captures the two for the first time in the same frame.

Tell me, O you whom I love , where you feed your flock, where you make it rest at noon, for why should I be as one who veils herself (or wanders - Septuagint, Syriac and Vulgate) by the flocks of your companions?

THE BELOVED

If you do not know, O fairest among women, follow the footsteps of the flock, and feed your little goats beside the shepherds' tents.

But already there is much that is ideal and much figurative of something universally desireable in what has been said.

> This introductory and first senario, of idyllic, pure initial love, continues to the end of chapter 2.

Then...ABOUT THE HEART chapter 3 and 4

A NEW LIFE OF UNION chapter 5

WITHIN THE VEIL chapters 6 and 7

and OF LOVE chapter 8
 
Can you see the figurative?

See this famous line:

He brought me to the banqueting house, And his banner over me was love. (v2:4)

Surely the beloved cannot climb on a ladder to put up this banner.

And the banqueting house is a symbol too here in scripture, a specialness and an invitation which every bride should feel.
 
I will put forward more ideals, such as I see in the poetry, the lyrics, of the first two chapters, this first senario of initial relationship, meeting and falling in love. You may read and see more.

These tell us of the ideal, so soon we must discuss: how are we supposed to meet these ideals in this world.
 
AN IDYLLIC LOVE

THE SHULAMITE
Rightly do they love you ...(male).

5 I (am) dark, but lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, like the tents of Kedar, like the curtains of Solomon.
Do not look upon me, because I (am) dark, because the sun has looked upon me.
My mother's sons were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyards, my own vineyard I have not kept.
(TO THE BELOVED)
Tell me, O you whom I love, where you feed (your flock), where you make (it) rest at noon. For why should I be as one who veils herself/wanders by the flocks of your companions?
THE BELOVED
8 If you do not know, O fairest among women, follow in the footsteps of the flock, and feed your little goats beside the shepherds' tents.
I have compared you, my love, to my filly among Pharaoh's chariots. Your cheeks are lovely with ornaments, your neck with chains.
THE DAUGHTERS OF JERUSALEM
We will make you ...(female singular) ...((the Shulamite)) ornaments of gold with studs of silver.
THE SULAMITE
12 While the king is at his table, my (perfume) sends forth its fragrance.
A bundle of myrrh is my beloved to me, that lies all night between my breasts. My beloved (is) to me a cluster of (flowers) in the vineyards of En Gedi.
THE BELOVED
15 Behold, you (are) fair, my love! Behold, you (are) fair! You (have) dove's eyes.
THE SHULAMITE
Behold, you are handsome my beloved! Yes, pleasant!
Also our bed/couch is green. The beams or our houses (are) cedar, our rafters of fir.
2:1 I (am) the rose of Sharon, the lily of the valleys.
THE BELOVED
Like a lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.
THE SHULAMITE
3 Like an apple tree among the trees of the woods, so is my beloved among the sons.
I sat down in his shade with great delight, and his fruit (was) sweet to my taste.
THE SHULAMITE TO THE DAUGHTERS OF JERUSALEM
He brought me to the (banqueting table), and his banner over me (was) love.
Sustain me with cakes of raisins, refresh me with apples, for I (am) lovesick.
6 His left hand (is) under my head, and his right hand embraces me.
I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or by the does of the field, do not stir up or awaken love until it pleases.
THE SHULAMITE
The voice of my beloved! Behold, he comes leaping upon the mountains, skipping upon the hills.
My beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag.
Behold, he stands behind our wall; He is looking through the windows, gazing through the lattice.

10 My beloved spoke, and said to me: "Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away. For lo, the winter is past, the rain is over (and) gone. The flowers appear on the earth; the time of singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. The fig tree puts forth her green figs, and vines (with) the tender grapes give a good smell. Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away! 14 O my dove, in the clefts of the rock, in the secret of the cliff, let me see your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely."
THE BROTHERS
15 Catch us the foxes, the little foxes that spoil the vines, for our vines (have) tender grapes.
THE SULAMITE
My beloved (is) mine, and I (am) his. He feeds (his flock) among the lilies.
(TO HERBELOVED)
17 Until the day breaks and the shadows flee away, turn, my beloved, and be like a gazelle or a young stag upon the mountains of Bether.


Their coming together is fitting and ideal. And the ideals begin in the introduction.


She is won over, v2a.
She esteems him above all other pleasures, v2b.
He is honourable in character, and of worthy report, v3;
(fragrance is poetic of spirit and good ointments character refined,
while a name means it is recognised, which a woman esteems.)

They continue when the Shulamite speaks of herself.
She has served her family, v6, even giving it priority over, and at
sacrifice of, her own interests, v6, etc, as you read it.

And continue through the presentation of their initial relationship:
He esteems her above all others, v8.
He will guide her gently, v8.
He will provide for her and protect her, v8.
He has considered her and esteems her as unique among others, v9.
He praises her, v10, etc.


As you continue to read, there are many more figurative meanings you will see, through which the Lord may speak.
Their place is established in good order, solid and orderly, v16, as were their homes before them, v17.
(She is the one who expresses it, v 2:1.)
It establishes her value v 2:1.

He is the courtier, v4.
His motive, and attitude, is love, v4.

She judges it, and declares it, (in this case, fitting and ideal) v6 and 7.


Now she becomes poetic herself, looking at the wider circumstances: v 2:8 – 2:17



This beautiful scene addresses the wider circumstances of their coming
together.


The prospect of their coming together is fitting and perfect in timing and circumstances.


He is well-able, above the world and already above circumstances, v8.
The circumstances and the timing are right, ...a time when things are
coming into natural fruition, v10 - 13.
He calls her, v8 - 14.
His love is perfect, v14 :her voice is sweet to him, and her face, lovely.
(Do you want to know if someone is 'in love'? – Here is your answer.)
She admires him as he is, in freedom, while they are yet separated, v17.
We note:
The love that she requires is there.
The respect he requires is there.



When we see these here in scripture completing the description of their first love, we may understand that each of these ideals (beautifully expressed in poetry) is necessary to success, and to the fullness of God's blessing.

Each poetic meaning here completes the ideal through which is the fullness of God's blessing.

In each falling short, for us there are consequences. And shortly we should discuss how are we supposed to meet these ideals in the world.


For the moment let me say it a blessing to have scripture even when we fall short,because scripture gives us understanding.
 
So here is our first major lesson:

(The Shulamite completes the description of their first love with a eulogy of fitting circumstances and timeliness, v2:8 - 17.)

Falling in love is not the complete justification for a relationship.

(Falling in love is completed by the ideals given here and any others the Lord may speak.)
 
How hard it is when we have met someone. We can imagine our needs met, a perfect situation, the end of not being able to settle down to a life we want, the end of not knowing.

And yet certainty comes from waiting on God, not on circumstances.

I say, certainty comes from waiting on God, not ..on ..circumstances.
 
2:6 His left hand is under my head,

and his right hand embraces me.

7 I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem,

By the gazelles or by the does of the field,

Do not stir up nor awaken love until it pleases.

This is ideal, she is saying, and that is to be waited upon.

And when we see the mighty power in the fullness of God's blessing, you can be sure of the exceeding worth of wanting God's best...

and so waiting for it - - -

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And now she charges you - do not stir up Nor awaken love until it pleases: Do not 'go hunting', do not initiate or deepen a relationship without the pronouncement of God.
 
Again, how hard it is too when we have not even met someone. We imagine our needs met, a perfect situation, a fulfilment of our imaginations' great promise, the "delight, emcompassment and fulfilment".

How are we to meet these ideals in love.

How are we to meet these ideals in life?

How do we walk in life anyway. Are we not at the command of God. Are we not his.

Does the Lord know our needs, now that we have spoken to Him about it?

How is it we walk in all other things.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path.
(prb 3)

God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. (Php 4)

Is not God our provider. Does he not know our need, and want the bestfor us?

We should walk before the Lord as we would walk about our daily business, guided by Him. And commit our way to Him.

He will meet our need. He will supply the person right for us at the fitting time.