I have this relationship problem my girl don't trust when I say things will change. I am serious this time but she has given up and said that she does not what to continue anymore. Now I don't know what to do but to turn to God but I feel like it can't be fixed. I can't seem to shake this doubt. I want to trust him but I am looking at the situation and it looks hopeless. please help.
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I hate to tell you this, but we've got to have ourselves figured out before we enter into relationships.
Now, if I were this woman of yours, the only way that I would even entertain the thought of trying again would be if you came to me with a full apology that went something like this.
"My love, I am so sorry . . . and I'm willing to prove it. I will do all reasonable things that you need me to do to wipe away the pain and agony that I have caused you, as well as any financial losses that I may have caused. I will do all things reasonable to have you back.
Here is what I have done so far to change my ways, personality, and characteristics (you fill in the blank). And, my Love, here is what I plan to do from here on out to ensure that I do not ever slip back into my old ways. I am committed to you. I will give you all that I am capable of giving. You will be my priority in all good things."
Now, if I were this woman of yours, the only way that I would even entertain the thought of trying again would be if you came to me with a full apology that went something like this.
"My love, I am so sorry . . . and I'm willing to prove it. I will do all reasonable things that you need me to do to wipe away the pain and agony that I have caused you, as well as any financial losses that I may have caused. I will do all things reasonable to have you back.
Here is what I have done so far to change my ways, personality, and characteristics (you fill in the blank). And, my Love, here is what I plan to do from here on out to ensure that I do not ever slip back into my old ways. I am committed to you. I will give you all that I am capable of giving. You will be my priority in all good things."
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It amazes me sometime how we are. We get ourselves into a mess and then turn to God to fix it for us. We need God to fix us, and one of the ways he does that sometimes is let us suffer loss.
God will probably not bring your girl back to you, and you need to learn to be happy with that if it is the case. Let God teach you through your error.
Just a recommendation is to work on your relationship with God and not try to be in a relationship with a woman for a while. By while I mean a year or maybe more, possibly a lot longer.
God will probably not bring your girl back to you, and you need to learn to be happy with that if it is the case. Let God teach you through your error.
Just a recommendation is to work on your relationship with God and not try to be in a relationship with a woman for a while. By while I mean a year or maybe more, possibly a lot longer.
I find there are so many things beyond my control in my life, some good things and some bad, that I am utterly powerless to control them. You may reach a point where you realize you have no other choice but to trust God. Remember who sits on the throne and who is sovereign.