How to pray for others
Luke 11:5 And he said unto them, Which of you shall have a friend, and shall go unto him at midnight, and say unto him, Friend, lend me three loaves; 6 For a friend of mine in his journey is come to me, and I have nothing to set before him?
On a journey is very general. It could be an issue at work, or with his family. Imagine you are preparing to share a message to the church, or you are visiting with a friend who is going through issues, or you are going to a family gathering. Remember, Jesus is Lord of all, this person has been sent to you for a purpose, he is asking you for three loaves for a purpose, the Lord has three loaves He wants to give them through you.
7 And he from within shall answer and say, Trouble me not: the door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot rise and give thee. 8 I say unto you, Though he will not rise and give him, because he is his friend, yet because of his importunity he will rise and give him as many as he needeth. 9 And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.
This is the context of "ask and it shall be given thee". We get put into all kinds of situations where we don't have anything to supply the need, but what we do have is the Lord Jesus, He can supply the need.
I had an experience, my brother was getting married. There were probably two hundred people at the wedding and I knew I would get a chance to speak and I knew it would be major warfare. I prayed for two months before this event. The night before the wedding there was a dinner and people were giving speeches. I thought this is my chance but it was clear I had no leading, only confusion and kept silent. After that dinner my brother asked me to read a few verses from the Bible. I knew that was my chance. The anointing was there, but what I had was five minutes and I knew that was too long. My dad asked me to go with him prior to the wedding and in the car asked me about what I was going to read. I told him it was five minutes and he freaked and I said I know, I'm trying to edit it down. So I began by saying I had one verse I wanted to read, which was true, and then I began to share about it the context of this verse. I was talking about how the sons express the father (all three of my Dad's sons were standing up there). Meanwhile on the front row my dad is furiously waving to my two brothers to pull me. My older brother leaned into my younger brother (the groom) and said "tell me when". Everyone saw what was going on and you could hear a pin drop. Then I said "and we'll even let you see things he doesn't want you to see". That was not something I had prepared, that was the Holy Spirit stepping in. My dad burst out laughing, later my brother told me that line bought me five more minutes. I don't remember the verse I read but I do remember I had told a joke about circumcision. Afterwards everyone was laughing about that speech for two days. I got to preach the gospel to 200 people who were completely on guard to stop me from preaching the gospel. I was terrified, but the Lord wasn't, He was more than ready to deliver, just waiting for me to ask.
10 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. 11 If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
So one of the main things that many ask for is a spouse. If you pick a spouse on your own you are likely to get a stone (a husband that is cold as a stone) rather than bread or you may get a serpent (a wife you can't trust) rather than a fish.
12 Or if he shall ask an egg, will he offer him a scorpion?
Parents pray for a child, do you want an egg or a scorpion? Pray for a spouse, pray for a child and understand you want bread, you want fish and you want an egg. You don't want a stone, or a serpent or a scorpion.
13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
Luke 11:5 And he said unto them, Which of you shall have a friend, and shall go unto him at midnight, and say unto him, Friend, lend me three loaves; 6 For a friend of mine in his journey is come to me, and I have nothing to set before him?
On a journey is very general. It could be an issue at work, or with his family. Imagine you are preparing to share a message to the church, or you are visiting with a friend who is going through issues, or you are going to a family gathering. Remember, Jesus is Lord of all, this person has been sent to you for a purpose, he is asking you for three loaves for a purpose, the Lord has three loaves He wants to give them through you.
7 And he from within shall answer and say, Trouble me not: the door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot rise and give thee. 8 I say unto you, Though he will not rise and give him, because he is his friend, yet because of his importunity he will rise and give him as many as he needeth. 9 And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.
This is the context of "ask and it shall be given thee". We get put into all kinds of situations where we don't have anything to supply the need, but what we do have is the Lord Jesus, He can supply the need.
I had an experience, my brother was getting married. There were probably two hundred people at the wedding and I knew I would get a chance to speak and I knew it would be major warfare. I prayed for two months before this event. The night before the wedding there was a dinner and people were giving speeches. I thought this is my chance but it was clear I had no leading, only confusion and kept silent. After that dinner my brother asked me to read a few verses from the Bible. I knew that was my chance. The anointing was there, but what I had was five minutes and I knew that was too long. My dad asked me to go with him prior to the wedding and in the car asked me about what I was going to read. I told him it was five minutes and he freaked and I said I know, I'm trying to edit it down. So I began by saying I had one verse I wanted to read, which was true, and then I began to share about it the context of this verse. I was talking about how the sons express the father (all three of my Dad's sons were standing up there). Meanwhile on the front row my dad is furiously waving to my two brothers to pull me. My older brother leaned into my younger brother (the groom) and said "tell me when". Everyone saw what was going on and you could hear a pin drop. Then I said "and we'll even let you see things he doesn't want you to see". That was not something I had prepared, that was the Holy Spirit stepping in. My dad burst out laughing, later my brother told me that line bought me five more minutes. I don't remember the verse I read but I do remember I had told a joke about circumcision. Afterwards everyone was laughing about that speech for two days. I got to preach the gospel to 200 people who were completely on guard to stop me from preaching the gospel. I was terrified, but the Lord wasn't, He was more than ready to deliver, just waiting for me to ask.
10 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. 11 If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
So one of the main things that many ask for is a spouse. If you pick a spouse on your own you are likely to get a stone (a husband that is cold as a stone) rather than bread or you may get a serpent (a wife you can't trust) rather than a fish.
12 Or if he shall ask an egg, will he offer him a scorpion?
Parents pray for a child, do you want an egg or a scorpion? Pray for a spouse, pray for a child and understand you want bread, you want fish and you want an egg. You don't want a stone, or a serpent or a scorpion.
13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?