maybe there's something terribly wrong with me, but i have major difficulty swooning over men that i don't know. who don't know i exist. like actors.
eye-candy? oh yeah, check!
swooning? nah, that's reserved for someone who can at least fetch my smelling salts. ; p
maybe that's my point. guys are swoon-worthy when you see extraordinary moments or rare qualities in an ordinary guy.
not unlike when the sun's rays dance upon something shiny among the pebbles in the creek bed, illuminating something rare and special. something that's unlike everyone else, even in some tiny way.
and it can be so random...so seemingly unremarkable. but the way it catches my heart (or eye) delights or touches me in some way.
like, the kind of unflinching eye contact that can bring a flush to my cheeks. or he asks me a question that looks deep within me, because he knows the answer already. or just some unabashed vulnerable honesty, maybe accompanied with nervous laughter.
now, my friends, is swoon-worthy.