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ok i need to know how to be real with my parents, beacause, its a pain keepin them out of my life and strechin simple things and making it seem like im lettin them in
my dad is fine i ccan talk to him whenever about whatever
but my mom,.... ehhh not so much
mom admits she hates letting go but (i later realized this was a dumb excuse) sometimes i would feel as if her overprotectiveness was pushing me to lie to her and do things i normally wouldnt
like say, i can completly understand wanting to meet someones parents, i can get that i can also get other things parents do ... call to check up on someone but sometimes mom seems to go overboard, saying i cant do this if no chaperones are available (mooommmm its a park!!) and i dont ask to go to parties clubs none of that i dont drink or smoke
and one thing that hurts my feelings, is she doesnt think im a virgin she may never outright admit it but its implied heavily
and she says alot of times thinks that make me feel like i wasnt sposed to be born (i promise if you werent here...") "if it was just me n ...." etc and i confront her about it but she wont change ive prayed also but nothing gotten better we argue daily the simplest things turn itno arguements she alot of times says hurtful things on purpose and of course i do my part i may annoy her by not doin what she ask but its not consistent enough to receive this kind off treatment whenever we argure i always come back ang apologize, never the other way around, i have to "grovel and kiss hands" to go places she just makes me feel unwelcome any thing can help me right about now
my dad is fine i ccan talk to him whenever about whatever
but my mom,.... ehhh not so much
mom admits she hates letting go but (i later realized this was a dumb excuse) sometimes i would feel as if her overprotectiveness was pushing me to lie to her and do things i normally wouldnt
like say, i can completly understand wanting to meet someones parents, i can get that i can also get other things parents do ... call to check up on someone but sometimes mom seems to go overboard, saying i cant do this if no chaperones are available (mooommmm its a park!!) and i dont ask to go to parties clubs none of that i dont drink or smoke
and one thing that hurts my feelings, is she doesnt think im a virgin she may never outright admit it but its implied heavily
and she says alot of times thinks that make me feel like i wasnt sposed to be born (i promise if you werent here...") "if it was just me n ...." etc and i confront her about it but she wont change ive prayed also but nothing gotten better we argue daily the simplest things turn itno arguements she alot of times says hurtful things on purpose and of course i do my part i may annoy her by not doin what she ask but its not consistent enough to receive this kind off treatment whenever we argure i always come back ang apologize, never the other way around, i have to "grovel and kiss hands" to go places she just makes me feel unwelcome any thing can help me right about now