Yea, I mean, memes are often satirized or reduced versions of real life events, so I wouldn't trust that this is exactly what she said or how she said it, but if it is, then she's an idiot.
Abortion is ugly. It's ugly for the doctor performing the procedure and it's ugly for the woman undergoing the procedure and it's infinitely more ugly for the child. I don't like it. I don't feel like it's a nice thing, I don't take it lightly. In fact, I despise it. I despise it because it is painful, and it is gruesome, and it is very, very sad and unsettling.
Should any woman ever come to me and ask me "do you think I should get an abortion?", my answer would almost invariably be "no, I don't". The only time I would ever say to a woman, "perhaps you should", is if her own live is inescapably in immediate and definite danger. However, even though I would practically never advise a woman to get an abortion unless she might die if she remains pregnant, I don't believe in legally banning it completely. I can be against it morally, for the most part, yet still understand why in certain circumstances it might be necessary to facilitate.
I don't like it, I don't believe in abortion on demand, like "let's have fun unprotected sex and kill a child 18 weeks later", but I do think abortion should be legal in certain circumstances, because I know what the alternative is. Totally banning abortion does not stop abortion from happening. Women, all over the world, do not simply stop having abortions because abortion is banned in their home countries. What happens is that they either go abroad for the procedure, or they have the procedure done in some dirty back alley, on cheap drugs, with cheap equipment, by unqualified practitioners, at sometimes very serious financial and physical cost. Many die.
The gestational period at which I believe abortion becomes very difficult, which is around about 10 weeks, is when cells have differentiated enough that brains and nerves start to form and the baby's sexual development begins. After this period, abortion should not be given unless under very strict circumstances, because there is a chance -- though small, but a chance nonetheless -- that the child will feel pain during the procedure. Abortion in such a circumstance might be available only as a last resort scenario in cases like rape, child sex abuse, or if their is an immediate danger to the woman's life, but other than that, I think to have an abortion at that stage is just irresponsible and cruel. And as for people who have been raped or abused, there still must be an upper cut-off limit, which I can't justify being any more than about 16 weeks, which is when the child's brain has formed to the point of no return: he or she will likely be able to feel some level of pain if not anesthetized. That's another stipulation I believe in -- the child should be anesthetized.
I know this seems a bit contradictory, a bit paradoxical, a guy who morally hates abortion but is pro choice, but really, in cases like rape or child abuse, like for instance some 14 year old girl gets pregnant because her uncle abused her, I don't think there's any possible way to make a "right call" in a situation like that. It's totally beyond wrong already, that someone has to even make such a horrible decision. I don't think I could do that, and I've gotta give my support to anybody in that position, whichever decision they make and whichever option they choose.
It can't be easy.