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Sorry Zero but this advice sucks big time. Your advice sounds like it came from that purile pop culture "Hes just not that into you" movie rubbish
As bible believing Jesus loving people we shouldnt just consider "ooh is he gonna be my future husband??" just based on her thinking hes attractive. Oh btw, thats called lust. Regardless if the bloke is an athiest self centred prat or bible loving Christian. That kind of mental fantasy pushes you to emotionally connect very prematurely in my opinion and can lead you down dangerous slopes all for the sake of "oh cos hes attractive." So what? If you're a Christian woman who wants to be loved by a man as Christ loved the church, then you''d want to raise the standards on where you're going to 'hunt' potential suitors, and if you're wanting that then you'd want to find out whether or not their a Christian before you even bother batting your eyelashes at him, and Im sorry but I can't think of a single Christian male (except Ned Flanders) who would deliberately go to Starbucks, walk up to every woman and ask "Hi, Im a Christian, I want to date a Christian, do you love Jesus.. No? Ok Next one! Hi, Im a christian..."
Im not saying you should sit back on your toosh and expect your future husband on a silver platter from God, Im just suggesting your A game isn't that flash. Look around at your church, INCLUDING the men that you wouldn't immediately pay attention to but whom God has put in your path. You never know what may come out of those friendships. Or suggest to people you trust in the church if they know any decent christian guys they can point in your direction. And if theres no options left, visit some other churches in your neighborhood, find out if they have singles groups if your looking.
But don't go asking your Christian brothers and sisters (who should know better) to give you hints on how to flirt with men you don't know anything about! You don't know their character, sin, faith/nonfaith, attitudes, values etc. Geez louise thats just secular non christian folly! And stop watching too much rom com's. They subtley give out awful advice.
Of course Ive realised I probably come off as some big killy joy meanie, so heres my advice to you to get some 'attention' from your starbucks 'crush.' Next time you go, take a big fat giant bible with you and read it openly in full view while waiting for your coffee without saying a thing. I garrentee you'll find the answer to his being interested/not interested in you based on his facial expression when he see's that.
As bible believing Jesus loving people we shouldnt just consider "ooh is he gonna be my future husband??" just based on her thinking hes attractive. Oh btw, thats called lust. Regardless if the bloke is an athiest self centred prat or bible loving Christian. That kind of mental fantasy pushes you to emotionally connect very prematurely in my opinion and can lead you down dangerous slopes all for the sake of "oh cos hes attractive." So what? If you're a Christian woman who wants to be loved by a man as Christ loved the church, then you''d want to raise the standards on where you're going to 'hunt' potential suitors, and if you're wanting that then you'd want to find out whether or not their a Christian before you even bother batting your eyelashes at him, and Im sorry but I can't think of a single Christian male (except Ned Flanders) who would deliberately go to Starbucks, walk up to every woman and ask "Hi, Im a Christian, I want to date a Christian, do you love Jesus.. No? Ok Next one! Hi, Im a christian..."
Im not saying you should sit back on your toosh and expect your future husband on a silver platter from God, Im just suggesting your A game isn't that flash. Look around at your church, INCLUDING the men that you wouldn't immediately pay attention to but whom God has put in your path. You never know what may come out of those friendships. Or suggest to people you trust in the church if they know any decent christian guys they can point in your direction. And if theres no options left, visit some other churches in your neighborhood, find out if they have singles groups if your looking.
But don't go asking your Christian brothers and sisters (who should know better) to give you hints on how to flirt with men you don't know anything about! You don't know their character, sin, faith/nonfaith, attitudes, values etc. Geez louise thats just secular non christian folly! And stop watching too much rom com's. They subtley give out awful advice.
Of course Ive realised I probably come off as some big killy joy meanie, so heres my advice to you to get some 'attention' from your starbucks 'crush.' Next time you go, take a big fat giant bible with you and read it openly in full view while waiting for your coffee without saying a thing. I garrentee you'll find the answer to his being interested/not interested in you based on his facial expression when he see's that.
I didn't tell her to sleep with the guy. I'm just saying that she shouldn't just write him off without at least trying to get to know a little more about him. I'm sure that Arwen doesn't run into guys attractive enough to start threads about everyday.
