The Definitive Guide to the Ideal Woman

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Relena7 said:
I suspect men make lists like this because they appreciate when women make lists for them. They are sturdy and linear and easy to follow. They don't have to wonder. Many men like guidelines. It's just their "language" or something.
I don't think they do it intentionally to tick us off...... even though it totally does....

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Didn't know that. lol But, seriously, what on that list would you not be able to fill? It's like #1 make a salami sandwich. #2. be a slob. #3... #8's a toughy. It involves being secure in yourself and accepting help. Something most men can't do. But luckily you have the power of *woman*
 
Esarin said:
I agree with the whole 'grass is greener on the other side" for both sexes. I cooked for my ex every single day and even cooked and packed him food for his work. I don't think he really appreciated it until we broke up because now he is eating tv dinners. lol
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Yup. Sounds like a typical guy. The tv dinner part, that is. I don't even heat mine up. They're fresher that way. Tonight I'm having meat cube with gravysicles. On a lighter note, I'm sure he'll die soon.
 
TheAristocat said:
Didn't know that. lol But, seriously, what on that list would you not be able to fill? It's like #1 make a salami sandwich. #2. be a slob. #3... #8's a toughy. It involves being secure in yourself and accepting help. Something most men can't do. But luckily you have the power of *woman*
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I don't have an issue on whether or not I fit these types of lists. I'm just not a fan of boxes and rigidness.
It kinda reminds me of a detailed help-wanted ad. :eek: I don't have a very linear mind so yeah...it just seems overly complicated to me. Also it can come off as a bit judgmental sounding.

Normally I'd set off on a mini rant...but I'll spare you since we're PM buddies. :p And just leave it at "I don't like lists" lol
 
Relena7 said:
I don't have an issue on whether or not I fit these types of lists. I'm just not a fan of boxes and rigidness.
It kinda reminds me of a detailed help-wanted ad. :eek: I don't have a very linear mind so yeah...it just seems overly complicated to me. Also it can come off as a bit judgmental sounding.

Normally I'd set off on a mini rant...but I'll spare you since we're PM buddies. :p And just leave it at "I don't like lists" lol
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I understand. Lists can seem demanding, because they're more straightforward and confrontational. Even if they aren't demanding it makes the person creating them seem arrogant or presumptuous. But to me they're just a way of organizing my own thoughts and desires that are already bouncing around in my head.
 
Esarin said:
I agree with the whole 'grass is greener on the other side" for both sexes. I cooked for my ex every single day and even cooked and packed him food for his work. I don't think he really appreciated it until we broke up because now he is eating tv dinners. lol
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Now thats what i need. I don't cook. So i eat out daily. Woo woo. hahaha
 
You guys and your non cooking skills! Every time we make burritos my dad forgets how to fold them, then when he finally figures it out he realizes that he forgot the cheese or some other ingredient. EVERY TIME.

However, my brother in law makes a mean lasagna that could slap Gordon Ramsay in the face.
 
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