The Fear of Being Alone

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The option that so many fail to look at is doing a year or two at a community college to knock off required courses such as math, English, etc. then transfer to a four year university to complete the degree. Community colleges cost a minuscule fraction of a major university and of course there is the savings in housing also.

I put my son through college. He Graduated from George Mason University... 67,000 dollars... I know what it is to put a child through college... To send my daughter to that same school will cost 31,000 dollars more because I don't live in that state. I want her to have the same experience as my son. I thank God that he works for a good company. However, My daughter has excelled in a far more rapid pace in academics than my son. I want her to have the same privilege as he...
 

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Hi David :) .I am only 19 but even though I am it doesn't mean I don't have strong ideas and beliefs about God and relationships. I am glad to be here to offer some encouragement for anyone that is feeling incomplete or empty at the moment because of a bad relationship with another or themselves. I want to say that I have experienced having a boyfriend so far from a different religion and it hasn't worked out for me because of the issue of their self-control, let's just say I believe in no relations of a sexual kind before marriage and it's not something I'm ashamed of. I believe God put this guidance inside me so I would not stray from his plan for my life. It may feel nice to have pleasure but it's not nice when someone disregards that you have feelings and beliefs. It is very important I have learnt to have someone who is interested in God more then you.

What I really want to say to you is that if your a strong believer in someone wholesome then God will give them to you when He knows you are ready, you will find someone who will not let your eyes wander from your Creator, who will keep you loving Him all the days of your life and be stronghold of your family unit with you meeting you halfway.

It can feel lonely sometimes not having someone, sure ill give you that but nothing is worse than being with someone who makes you feel alone when they are right there and well we must help ourselves by realising that life isn't lonely because God never left us and He loves us. I feel humans dont have the greatest ability of love, only God does so even if someone loves us they can love us and help us not to feel alone but they can not be the source of what makes us feel alone or not we must build a foundation where we can feel so un alone when there is no crowd around. I feel like that sometimes to but it's just because were doubting Gods abilities to give us what we need in the right time, have a prayer about it every night it will calm your soul and heart okay :). Someone will come, someone who is crazy and passionate about God because you yourself are and that just has to be something you prioritise or you will never feel satisfied because your spirit, heart and soul is in line with God. Hold to your beliefs and values precious people, God is writing your love story and it's not something you want to miss out on.