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violakat
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Those clocest to me truly see me and thats why they are clocest to me perhaps.
My clocest are the most beautiful holy souls to me and they are so kind, good, beautiful, wise (list goes on)
They see me as they feel me, listen to me, understand me, care for me...
They see past the "person" and into my soul and truth.
I am studying aged care.
With this some beautiful words are listed to show ones clients.
Such as Compassion, integrity, respect, dignity,kindness, right to live in peace, privacy, security, love,
belonging,reassurance, comfort, empathy,care, listen, validate how feel, relaxation and friendly talks, humour and laughter,try to understand (not try be right & say understand when dont) ,help feel part of society and help promote selfesteem and independence...
Not talk about client "over their head" when they hear what you are saying as it is very belittling and makes them feel bad...
Many more things are listed but there is some "keywords"
At a workplace the staff and people have done the opposite to this.
They even spoke "she doesnt appreciate food, doesnt deserve it" and behave very badly to this client which makes her feel depressed, sad, and all those feelings one may feel when misstreated.
The client is not liked by staff and they stole from client cause feel "we work client is gaga in head anyway we deserve it more than her she just in home anyway"
The list of wrong doings are many.
But what when complaint has been made and noone listens as managers are a part of this behaviour and none of the nurses want to dob in their friends and coleagues so duty of care if not done which is illegal.
The whole place is oprating opposite to how it should be and complaints are not getting through.
What can one do I guess go to the higher boss so to say but what when they say "no, so did not happen" (as they would lie not get in trouble or lose jobs or positions of trust they missuse)
What ways can you think of going about such things when nothing works as they are popular, have friends in the top boss positioning and noone listens or makes a change or investigates...
Ok, i ask another question
How was your day and if you could have any drink now what would it be? (for me would be freshly squeezed juice)
My day yesterday was good, Today is still going and will see how great it gets. As for a drink, a guilt free, Dr.Pepper. Oh wait, there is no such thing. lol. Ok, just a Dr. Pepper.
As for the other situation, I'm not sure what to tell you to do.
Who do you need to say an encouraging word too? Have you done it yet, today?