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Catlynn, I know your heart well enough to know that you mean no harm by your questions.
While I explained the motive behind these threads in the one about bad boys, I did not repeat it here, so that's probably my fault.
Ever since I began posting here I have heard guys complain time after time after time about good girls falling for bad boys. But not once did I ever see anyone try to share with young women what the warning signs were. Not all young women have someone to help them. Many young women are homeschooled or live in communities where they are somewhat sheltered and truly don't know what to watch out for. They are the perfect prey for the bad boy.
In reading through the bad boy warning thread, I noticed that a couple of the guys made comments that there are women out there that guys need to be warned about as well. Even in this thread there have been a couple of guys who have either learned the hard way and/or didn't kinow what to watch out for. Our society is HEAVILY into bashing guys and for some reason that seems to be okay. THAT really bothers me a LOT. Knowing full well that the guys are right in saying that there is a female version of the bad guy, it seemed only fair to help them understand what sort of woman to be careful of as well.
While we have done some of it in a joking way, the intent here is NOT to mock a stereotype. It's to let trusting guys out there know how manipulative some women can be. There IS a female version of the bad guy. I have a feeling that some of the things that have been said here never occurred to most of the guys.
I absolutely agree with the whole thing leaving a bad taste in one's mouth. I'm not thrilled about it either, but it's part of the world we live in. Knowledge is protection. That's what this thread is about, even if done in a tongue in cheek kinda way.
While I explained the motive behind these threads in the one about bad boys, I did not repeat it here, so that's probably my fault.
Ever since I began posting here I have heard guys complain time after time after time about good girls falling for bad boys. But not once did I ever see anyone try to share with young women what the warning signs were. Not all young women have someone to help them. Many young women are homeschooled or live in communities where they are somewhat sheltered and truly don't know what to watch out for. They are the perfect prey for the bad boy.
In reading through the bad boy warning thread, I noticed that a couple of the guys made comments that there are women out there that guys need to be warned about as well. Even in this thread there have been a couple of guys who have either learned the hard way and/or didn't kinow what to watch out for. Our society is HEAVILY into bashing guys and for some reason that seems to be okay. THAT really bothers me a LOT. Knowing full well that the guys are right in saying that there is a female version of the bad guy, it seemed only fair to help them understand what sort of woman to be careful of as well.
While we have done some of it in a joking way, the intent here is NOT to mock a stereotype. It's to let trusting guys out there know how manipulative some women can be. There IS a female version of the bad guy. I have a feeling that some of the things that have been said here never occurred to most of the guys.
I absolutely agree with the whole thing leaving a bad taste in one's mouth. I'm not thrilled about it either, but it's part of the world we live in. Knowledge is protection. That's what this thread is about, even if done in a tongue in cheek kinda way.