that doesn't sound like God to have You help them once and just stop. while going through all of this, the bills were paid, food was on the table, shelter over your heads and "all" on your little salary. there's a Miracle! many people squander their Blessing. and with Open Arms, God, takes the Prodigal back. but i do agree, if they're working, they should be helping out. shame on them.
I drained my retirement account, my brother refused to work, my sister squandered every penny, neither of them wanted to pay rent or buy food. I had to work to keep my house. yet you said NOTHING of my siblings