One clarification I need to make - I'm actually a drummer and really not much of a guitarist, so we might have to get an actual band to play the wedding reception because I'll be handling the food for the guests.
If you'd like me to talk to the bridesmaid for you maybe I can put in a good word for ya.
We want you to be happy and of course the lovely woman whom gives her heart to you should have all confidence in her choice as well.
I really like the crumbled cracker in the dip idea,then ppl can just spoon a big blob of it on their plates which will reduce traffic in and around the buffet area.

i can hardly wait!