I believe this particular passage, ( 1 Cor. 14:26-39), has more to do with avoiding disorder and confusion in services. It is not saying a woman isn’t allowed to talk, but rather they also are to restrain themselves from random, incoherent outbursts and that it is the husband’s responsibility to guide the wife in proper order in services. In looking at all the cross references given for those particular verse (verse 34), all the references are addressing the woman being under the authority of her husband. Also, the words “to speak” in verse 34 are translated from the Greek word “lalein” ( from “lalew”Srong’s # 2980) - “to talk at random” (Key Word Study Bible, Rev. Edition 1991 - Lexical aides p.1732). My conclusion is that this is addressing the husband’s responsibility to ensure their wives are not disruptive to the services and the wife’s responsibility to accept the husband’s direction. The main principle being addressed here is maintaining order in services without confusion or chaos. The issue is not who is or is not allowed to speak. The issue is those who do speak must be in harmony with the service, not bringing disruption or disorder. I would also like to point out that verse 31 says, “For you can all prophesy one by one, that all may learn and all may be encouraged ”.
In this instance reported by DieuMerci, I see no indication of error here. The tongue was confirmed by the pastor who gave interpretation, and the message was received. This was a specific message for this congregation and it is not the place of those for whom the message was not directed to judge or confirm its authenticity. It is for those to whom it was given to judge.
In reading this message, it appears this congregation is about to face an attack from the enemy of some type. The Lord is warning them it is coming and is assuring them He will bring them through it. This should be obvious what is happening. Instead of finding direction and encouragement, DieuMerci has been met with erroneous judgment by those who have no understanding. We need to be praying for this congregation’s strength and safety. We should not be telling them to discount this word because it is from God.
On another related note, there are 7 women in the Bible who were considered prophets. Should we discount their message because they are women?? Below in the list of these female prophets.
Female Prophets
Sarah
Gen 11:29 - 23:20
Miriam
Ex. 15:20-21; Num. 12:1-12:15, 20:1
Deborah
Judges 4:1 - 5:31
Hannah
I Sam 1:1 - 2:21
Abigail
I Sam 25:1 - 25:42
Huldah
II Kings 22:14-20
Esther
Esther
DieuMerci, I hope the Spirit’s message was fully understood, because it was meant to bring strength and courage through the coming days. FEAR NOT, He will bring your church through. Whatever this brings, do not let seeds of doubt to be sown, for you are Christ’s and NOTHING can snatch you from His hand.
You will be in my prayers.