A thought on truth and love:
If you see truth and love as opposites, you do not understand either one.
Truth and love must overlap one another, and you cannot have one without the other.
If I say - "I love you" but am not willing to tell you if you are sinning unto death (truth) (etc.), then I do not really love you.
If I say - "This is Biblical truth" - and quote a Bilbe verse and pound the pulpit, and say - you are going to hell if you keep on . . . (etc.), but if I do not love you - then I am not telling you "the truth".
Truth and love are completely compatible with each other; and they cannot exist without each other.