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shae0104

shae0104

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its should be obvious and i did this i was wronggggggggggggggggggggggg.
so learn from me please it saves your heart and wallet.

I had a kiddo out of wedlock and well I married him without counsel with out prayer. I felt we had been together long enough that it was the right thing to do. Seeing all the red flags I did it. I was wrong. He cheated with my best friend and lives with her. On a side note I give him thanks because of that I seek god first.

You should never marry because its the right thing to do, you should never marry because you cant keep your pants on.


You should marry because the two of you have christ as the cornerstone and you love each other :) I could be wrong
 
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shae0104 said:
its should be obvious and i did this i was wronggggggggggggggggggggggg.
so learn from me please it saves your heart and wallet.

I had a kiddo out of wedlock and well I married him without counsel with out prayer. I felt we had been together long enough that it was the right thing to do. Seeing all the red flags I did it. I was wrong. He cheated with my best friend and lives with her. On a side note I give him thanks because of that I seek god first.

You should never marry because its the right thing to do, you should never marry because you cant keep your pants on.


You should marry because the two of you have christ as the cornerstone and you love each other :) I could be wrong
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You are not wrong. :) I pray that God will use what you have gone through to protect others and that He will bless you richly.
 
shae0104 said:
I had a kiddo out of wedlock and well I married him without counsel with out prayer. I'm going to assume you meant you married the father, and not the 'kiddo', haha.

You should never marry because its the right thing to do, you should never marry because you cant keep your pants on.


You should marry because the two of you have christ as the cornerstone and you love each other :) I could be wrong

Actually, i've tried to tell this to Christians for years. Getting pregnant by a man doesn't make him a good father or husband. And doesn't 'fix' the situation. Somehow, a long time ago, Christians came under the impression the 'right thing to do' is marry someone if they get you pregnant. Its not biblical, so i never understood why Christians push it so much.
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Filler filler filler.
 
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