...we need to lose everything (empty ourselves) in order to make room for God for the full amount...
A sister said to me Sunday, "we are doing business in deep waters now, so we must empty ourselves for His fullness"...
He must increase so I must decrease.
Jn3:30
I don't have much revelation on what 'empty ourselves' looks like.
Jesus emptied himself of His diety...
I think people who talk like that don't understand what they're talking about. Godliness is not about self-negation. It's about yielding our members to the holy spirit to work righteousness. It is a gradual growing process, not a complete emptying and then filling.