Last time I was here I explained a scenario of a perfect romantic night. At the end of the thread I was going to type in " then I propose to her but did not cause this night I explained I actually planned for someone and talking about being stood up for a marriage that I already invested thousands in kinda hurt. So after this thread it was taken a lil too extreme for some of my sisters here and I was even talked to by the guy here who oversees this site. Ooops! Me and my ideas. Anyway. Nazerath - love hurts. But thanks be to Jesus I have it in me -the patience now for a significant other and that's a blessing. Going over board and stood up 3 times in 3 years was terrible. Wait on the Lord it is written and so therefore I wait. Faster is disaster I learned from the school of hard knocks so let it be- beetles. I like some secular music still. If I'm judged for it ok.