What DO you find attractive?

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arwen and Rachel, I have to agree with you on the dark hair thing. :) I wonder why that is??? Must google...
 
Umm, pretty much whatever he wants to wear ... I prefer his heart be dressed up more than the outside of His body..
Anything He wears that in a minutes notice He can roll up His sleeves and help Someone, is hotter than a model in an Armani suit .. I'm spontaneous sometimes ... I keep spare shoes in my vehicle ... Heels "can go with any pair of jeans", Muck boots "never know" , and snake boots, in case I'm in an area known for rattlesnakes ..I take a lot of photographs in some Rocky and wooded areas .. Yeah a universal dressing guy in whatever is fine with me ...
 
Tintin said:
Rachel, good list. I can't play the guitar and I don't have converse shoes or dark wash jeans (I don't even know what they are!)
Liamson, not sure why you quoted me. I wasn't taking the high-ground, just stating my preferences.

Physically, I don't know what I'm looking for. Someone not excessively shorter than I, someone with awesome eyes.
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Dark wash jeans are just darker jeans. :) For example, light wash jeans (click!) and dark was jeans (click!)

And yeah, awesome eyes are awesome!
 
Really, Duchess? I was thinking more Heavy Metal but whatever floats your boat.
 
Relena7 said:
Shirts that fit, and pants that don't sag so low you can see his undies or butt crack.

Wears shoes that look like you can both wear to a restaurant or go for a hike in.

Rectangular framed glasses are nice too...

Hawt shy nerds rule. :p
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Is that so? :cool: *sticks out hand*

DuchessAimee said:
You just used the word swoony. Is it because you were swoony at the time?
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Yup! I saw that tie and I was like, whoa.
 
Also, if he's a romantic at heart. I say that I'm a realist but I think I'm actually a romantic and just don't like to admit it. :)

Which is kind of ironic because I don't care for chick flicks.
 
Finally back for that promised post (as if anyone cared)
An incomplete, partial list, in no particular order, of things that I do find attractive:
She...
Loves God more than me.
Loves Herself
Has patience for me taking time to help another
Knows God's word
Is content to let me fulfill my calling as the spiritual leader of my house
Is not afraid to season in the kitchen
Is confident in versatile situations, not just those inside her comfort zone.
Enjoys learning
Respects my children and the relationship I have with them
Is modest in her appearance


More to follow, later, perhaps.
 
rachelsedge said:
Also, if he's a romantic at heart. I say that I'm a realist but I think I'm actually a romantic and just don't like to admit it. :)

Which is kind of ironic because I don't care for chick flicks.
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Perhaps what you don't care for isn't the romantic flair of those types of movies, but instead it's the a) the sometimes immortality of the situations b) the insane drama or c) the lying, cheating, and whatever else which leads to the couple realizing they're actually in love.

Then again, I could be wrong.
 
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The thing that I'm attracted to most in a girl is how nice of a person she is. Some other big factors are modesty, how serious she takes her faith in Christ, how often and contagious her smile is, and isn't too obsessed with how her hair is, makeup, or any stuff like that because she knows that true beauty isn't on the outside.

So basically if you get a nice girl who dresses modestly, is an on fire Christian who radiates the joy of the Lord in her life and smiles all the time, and doesn't worry about makeup and stuff all the time.... I get butterflies in my stomach, lol.
 
Since I skipped about three pages of the thread, this may have already been stated but, a white or black t-shirt and jeans on a man who smells nice.....*swoon* I don't know why or how...but it's grand. ^_^
 
Catlynn said:
Since I skipped about three pages of the thread, this may have already been stated but, a white or black t-shirt and jeans on a man who smells nice.....*swoon* I don't know why or how...but it's grand. ^_^
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Oh yes, I agree with you, if they smell good that's a major plus! Just a subtle hint, not a "I just sprayed a whole can of Axe on before walking out the door" type of smell...
 
rachelsedge said:
Oh yes, I agree with you, if they smell good that's a major plus! Just a subtle hint, not a "I just sprayed a whole can of Axe on before walking out the door" type of smell...
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Lmao. I don't like it when girls do that with perfume either. I'd rather smell BO personally
 
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