What Do YOU Have to Offer a Potential Date/Spouse? (CORRECTED)

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I Have the Following Things to Offer Someone (check all that apply):

  • I bet I can make you smile and laugh!

    Votes: 20 87.0%

  • I'm a good cook.

    Votes: 15 65.2%

  • I'm responsible and dependable.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I remember the change the cat litter before it's too late.

    Votes: 9 39.1%

  • I'd offer to take out the dog and clean up the yard.

    Votes: 10 43.5%

  • I'd clean the fish tank/gerbil cage/iguana pen.

    Votes: 6 26.1%

  • I'm great at cleaning and housework.

    Votes: 9 39.1%

  • My family would consider you to be part of our family as you are.

    Votes: 18 78.3%

  • I don't know what a vaccuum is, but I can fix cars.

    Votes: 3 13.0%

  • I hate doing laundry, but I'd gladly do the yardwork.

    Votes: 3 13.0%

  • I can hold a steady job, and if need be, juggle multiple jobs--I'm a hard worker.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I'm a good studen and can apply what I learn--I grow and adapt to new situations well.

    Votes: 12 52.2%

  • I'm killer on the grill!! (Sometimes I even kill what I grill...)

    Votes: 9 39.1%

  • I can fix cars, computers, electronics, etc.

    Votes: 8 34.8%

  • I'm responsible with money.

    Votes: 15 65.2%

  • I'm organized and scheduled.

    Votes: 8 34.8%

  • What's a schedule? But, I can bring spontaneity into the relationship.

    Votes: 10 43.5%

  • I'm a great listener.

    Votes: 18 78.3%

  • I'm good with kids.

    Votes: 13 56.5%

  • I give someone my full attention when I'm with them.

    Votes: 13 56.5%

  • I am very dedicated to family and friends.

    Votes: 17 73.9%

  • I can pray/fast with you and for you.

    Votes: 17 73.9%

  • I may not have all the answers, but I have others I can ask.

    Votes: 13 56.5%

  • I am a natural leader.

    Votes: 10 43.5%

  • I like being a good support person.

    Votes: 18 78.3%

  • I know how to create comforting atmospheres/environments.

    Votes: 14 60.9%

  • I am faithful in my Bible studies and church work.

    Votes: 10 43.5%

  • I give to others, and I would make you my highest priority under God.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I will do my best to be there when you need me.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I'm not afraid to stand up to you respectfully if I don't agree with you.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I keep myself in shape and would love to keep each other motivated.

    Votes: 10 43.5%

  • I'm good at decorating things.

    Votes: 9 39.1%

  • I put my laundry away (and if it's dirty, I put it in the basket/hamper.)

    Votes: 8 34.8%

  • I would love to learn about some of your interests.

    Votes: 17 73.9%

  • I have hobbies I would love to share with you.

    Votes: 15 65.2%

  • I can respect your alone time (and need some alone time myself.)

    Votes: 19 82.6%

  • I am willing to make myself vulnerable to you and trust you.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I will rely on God to teach me things about you I can understand on my own.

    Votes: 16 69.6%

  • I will love you for who you are, both good and bad.

    Votes: 19 82.6%

  • Other--please share with us in your post!

    Votes: 4 17.4%
  • Total voters
    23
Cookies[: this isn't a trick to get me to the dark side is it? Lol ;p

Well, idk how to honestly answer this question any other way besides I have nothing to offer other than what The Lord gives me[:
 
I dont see myself having much of anything to offer.

Im dirt poor, could end up homeless at any time now course I could also hit the lotto but I think it would be more likely to end up homeless then hit the lotto.

im just a guy who lives day to day. kinda amazed I made it this long actually.
 
Wow, this is an old poll... I guess I should have made it public so we could see who has which qualities. It might have led to a few matches! :) But at the time, I didn't know this many people would take the time to answer. :)
 
I just glanced at the poll. I couldn't help but chuckle at 'i'm a good studen' being misspelled, hahaha.
 
There are certain riches that can't be seen .. that make certain hands look empty
peaceful
Content
balanced
integrity
Loyalty
Honesty
freedom
Hard worker
Encourager
Reserved
Quiet
creative
Explorer
Joyful
Kind
friend
helper

I think it's being many things At the right time .. For the other person ..
Sort of an " I study you , you study me" bet I'll out learn you kind of thing ..
it's about being the seasoning in the other persons life .. becoming the flavor in the time of their need...
You get two people together willing to do that .. All else is possible .. It's about " becoming" ..I believe that's only possible when we allowed God to become something to us .. If He doesn't have first place.. Nothing outside of it will work ..
 
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Well by the looks of this poll...unless you like doing yardwork no one has anything to offer that most everyone else doesn't also have.
 
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