This is hard, but, nonetheless, a degree of silence is called for or speaking of things that touch no nerves, consider the source and let some things truly roll off, and not to allow this to get so deep into you. It still takes two to tango, and by your rising above, you're also being an example of something Christlike which is different, which we are called to be. A tough situation, but Lord knows I've had mine as bad as yours, I assure you, and the devil can only get inside to the extent you open the door and dance with him.
Thank you for the reminder. And the previous input.
I will keep those in mind. Try and take it one day at a time. Some will be better than others but with Christ it's possible.