For some, its being married, buying that first house and filling it with furniture and love.
For some, its the peace of mind knowing that whatever comes next in life, you don't have to face it alone ever again.
For some, its having children and raising a family.
For some, its living in an apartment and traveling a lot.
For some, its being seen as socially relevant again and being able to walk into church knowing that no one is wondering anything about you.
For some, its being able to leave all of the expectations, judgments and concern behind, just 2 people against the world.
I have come to a strange conclusion that perhaps the people we think we want to be with are painting a very different picture as to what "IT" looks like. I wonder this because it seems strange to me to think that two people could project onto each other the path to the top of the mountain and never truly realize just how different their ideas of happiness are.
So what does it look like to you?
How does it feel when you get there?
For some, its the peace of mind knowing that whatever comes next in life, you don't have to face it alone ever again.
For some, its having children and raising a family.
For some, its living in an apartment and traveling a lot.
For some, its being seen as socially relevant again and being able to walk into church knowing that no one is wondering anything about you.
For some, its being able to leave all of the expectations, judgments and concern behind, just 2 people against the world.
I have come to a strange conclusion that perhaps the people we think we want to be with are painting a very different picture as to what "IT" looks like. I wonder this because it seems strange to me to think that two people could project onto each other the path to the top of the mountain and never truly realize just how different their ideas of happiness are.
So what does it look like to you?
How does it feel when you get there?