What is wrong with me.

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MysteryReader101

MysteryReader101

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I just won't some one to chat back and forth with. But all I do is bug them. All I do is scare them away.
What's wrong with me. Am I annoying. I sure don't try to be. But I guess I am. Some one please tell me what I'm doing wrong.
 
MysteryReader101 said:
I just won't some one to chat back and forth with. But all I do is bug them. All I do is scare them away.
What's wrong with me. Am I annoying. I sure don't try to be. But I guess I am. Some one please tell me what I'm doing wrong.
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lol wow I said you where fine and you could pm me.
 
MysteryReader101 said:
But you act like I'm bugging you.
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Sometimes we perceive ourselves as bugging others because that's what we expect others to feel. And even when they don't, we can look for ques that indicate to us that we are annoying, even when they aren't there.
I went through these things for a long time, and still struggle with it at times, though i am getting better. I also used to do the same thing with being offended. I seemed to almost look for any little thing to be offended by, even when they weren't there.

So maybe consider that it's less what others are implying and more of how you are interpreting things.
 
I just won't to say that I'm sorry to all of those that I annoy or bug. I don't mean to be that way. I just like chatting with people.
I just wont some friends who like chatting back and forth. So if you like pming back and forth let me know.
 
Sometimes i'm wondering if my (real) friends think i'm bugging them too :D
i like to text them long long long story (especially if i need their advice or want to share something).. sometimes when they are tired they just said: i'll reply later!! LOL.. or the worst they give me short answer which inrelevant with my previous text.. LOL..
but we're still good friends.. :)

so, you dont have to worry too.. i'm sure they understand too (even its look like they run away from you) LOL..sometimes they do have their own problem and too busy to focus on your story :)

Be Happy ^_^
 
There's something wrong with ALL of us MR101. You're a nice girl. Maybe you just haven't found someone that "clicks" with you yet.

I'm not a very chatty person and I don't get close to people easily, but my door is always open.
 
I feel the same way. I joined this cite to open horizons and increase my Christian fellowship but no w one responds. I lost a lot of encouragement sure to that. But hey I'm still available if you want.
 
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