What reason would you not date/marry someone?

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I can learn to love that slug Oncefallen :p This thread made me look up pictures of snails and baby snails....there's something wrong with me. I think they're cute.
 
While having already had children, been through a divorce, or slept with many people is not gonna hinder me from dating/marrying someone, it does start us out at a disadvantage. I mean, everyone has their stuff, but don't have a wrap sheet the length of your arm, please.

I seem to attract such people though, so maybe one day it won't really trouble me much.

Ultimately, I think if both She and I like each other, mutually feel God giving us permission, and feel 'bettered by' one another, then of course we would date or maybe marry. There are just differences that sometimes prove difficult to overcome. Big surprise, but the relationships that have a ton of issues turn into marriages that have tons of issue...and usually divorce. There has to be some level of love, stability, responsibility, commitment, ext...as a part of each of their individual lives beforehand, let alone after in a collective relationship.

That's how I feel anyaway, and might have missed a thing or two.
 
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^^I can't help but wonder if you feel the same way about slugs.



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Wow very opinionated people in here. If I felt the same way that you all do I would still be in a lonely and sexless marriage to my ex husband today. I still have dream of being a wife and mother some day. But right now the way the world is its better to remain a divorced single woman.
 
Incompatibility. If the chemistry is not there, do not bother with the relationship.