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tekladista206
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It all started 4 years ago..I used to live in Washington in the year 0f 2008 my family decided to move to California...while we were trying to settle down in California, my mom stayed in WA working while my dad founf a job in CA...My mom lived with a friend who lived with her kids and husband also lived with her brother in law who had just arrived from USA from MEXICO. He didnt know anybody in the US and he obviously didnt have any friends, my mom thought that he was a good kidd so she called my little sister and asked us for our emails so that we could send him friend request on myspace and just try to be friends with him...we were weirded out but we just gave her our emails and we became friends with him on myspace... he ended up liking my sister because she was just veryy pretty in her myspace pictures and i was just too ugly in my myspace pictures, soo i didnt care about talking to him..because he was interested in only talking to my sister..my sister hated him she thought he was very annoying and she just wasnt interested at all in him...
A year Later 2009 i wentback to WA for my cousins wedding and i invited all my friends from WA and him,..we met face to face at that party and we danced all night and we had lots of funn but he was still interested in my sister so i didnt care about him i was focused on having a good time in my cousins wedding, that whole time i only danced with him because my sister wouldnt even spend 2 minutes talking to him so i didnt wanna be mean..nothing happened that night so i went back to CA the next day
2009 throught may 2010 i didnt have any contact with him because i was so into my senior year in highschool and i was in a relationshipp that ended in March 2010, i wasnt interested in talking to other guys so i didnt bother talking to him..summer vacation came July 2008 and i was done with highschool, i had nothing to do so i spent time onthe computer chatting with friends and such and i ended up chatting with him again we ended up having a really nice relationship so we started texting eachother everyday and talking on the phone..
as of September 2010 we were really close, although i didnt feel anything more than friendship but he started to really like me and he told me but i didnt really get the message and by november 2010 i realized i really liked him too, we would talk about everything and he was so funnny he really made me happy..too funny of my little brain, i realized later that he was far away and we hadnt seen eachother in 2 years and that he used to like my sister so i decided that i should only like him as a friend...December 2011 he asked me to be his girlfriend and i really wanted to be his gf but i said nooo because he was farr away and it would work out but he asked me to be his gf ike 100 times so i told him nooo come ask me face to face ill say yess, time passed..
January 2011 i had just started college and it was my 3rd day of school when i get a call from him and he says "guess what?!" i was like "what?!", he says "i resigned from my job and tomorrow my flight leaves to CA, im going to go see you!" i was like "what are you crazy?!?!?!" and he said he didnt care that he was going to come see me and he was going to move with his sister that lived 6 hours away from where i lived..so i was exicted and scared but we eventually met the next day and spent a week together, he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yess...things went to farr we ended up having sex (all of this happened before i had known about JESUS) various times..we were really happy together and he moved with his sister for about a month and left back to WA because he didnt find a job here and he didnt want to ask his sister for money or anything.... we started having alot of problems everyday we would fight over stupid things and our realtionship lasted until about june 2011 so 5 months ... he broke up with me for a stupid reason, he wanteed to see if i would forget about him fast and get with another guy,,, he didnt tell me that though he just said he couldnt be with me nomore but that he really loved me,,,,i was too madd so i got with this other guy and my ex got madd so he stopped talking to me and he started drinking getting drunk posting up videos of him with other girls at places and that made me even more madd but i realized i still loved him and i left the boyfriend i had after him,,,,,2 months later 0ctober 2011 i started talking to him again and we told eachother we loved eachother and we sort of got back together untill march 2012 he said he wasnt goign to be able to talk to me for about a month because he had a lot of work and he was going to disconnect his phone for a while,,, as of yesterday we started talking again and he asked me to leave with him..
he asked me to marry him a lot of times, but this is where the hard part comes...if i leave with him and marry him i would have to leave CA and my family..i am the main financial help for my family right now if i leave they probably wont even have enough money to pay rent and food and all the debts we have, God "called" me and my siblings to play christian music so if i leave that wouldnt happen, my mom doesnt like him
even though shes the one who really liked him from the beginning, my sister hates him, hes not christian so everyone thinks hes not good enough for me... so i dont know what to do..
if i leave ill marry the love of my life, ill have a good job in washington i know that for sure, i could go to a church over in WA, ill be with friend in WA if i need help with anything, i know how to get around....
he thinks im scared of leaving my house, im not scared i just dont want to leave my family in hard times and now im stucckkk!!!
i love him alot and he loves me too but i also love my family :/
help meee:
A year Later 2009 i wentback to WA for my cousins wedding and i invited all my friends from WA and him,..we met face to face at that party and we danced all night and we had lots of funn but he was still interested in my sister so i didnt care about him i was focused on having a good time in my cousins wedding, that whole time i only danced with him because my sister wouldnt even spend 2 minutes talking to him so i didnt wanna be mean..nothing happened that night so i went back to CA the next day
2009 throught may 2010 i didnt have any contact with him because i was so into my senior year in highschool and i was in a relationshipp that ended in March 2010, i wasnt interested in talking to other guys so i didnt bother talking to him..summer vacation came July 2008 and i was done with highschool, i had nothing to do so i spent time onthe computer chatting with friends and such and i ended up chatting with him again we ended up having a really nice relationship so we started texting eachother everyday and talking on the phone..
as of September 2010 we were really close, although i didnt feel anything more than friendship but he started to really like me and he told me but i didnt really get the message and by november 2010 i realized i really liked him too, we would talk about everything and he was so funnny he really made me happy..too funny of my little brain, i realized later that he was far away and we hadnt seen eachother in 2 years and that he used to like my sister so i decided that i should only like him as a friend...December 2011 he asked me to be his girlfriend and i really wanted to be his gf but i said nooo because he was farr away and it would work out but he asked me to be his gf ike 100 times so i told him nooo come ask me face to face ill say yess, time passed..
January 2011 i had just started college and it was my 3rd day of school when i get a call from him and he says "guess what?!" i was like "what?!", he says "i resigned from my job and tomorrow my flight leaves to CA, im going to go see you!" i was like "what are you crazy?!?!?!" and he said he didnt care that he was going to come see me and he was going to move with his sister that lived 6 hours away from where i lived..so i was exicted and scared but we eventually met the next day and spent a week together, he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yess...things went to farr we ended up having sex (all of this happened before i had known about JESUS) various times..we were really happy together and he moved with his sister for about a month and left back to WA because he didnt find a job here and he didnt want to ask his sister for money or anything.... we started having alot of problems everyday we would fight over stupid things and our realtionship lasted until about june 2011 so 5 months ... he broke up with me for a stupid reason, he wanteed to see if i would forget about him fast and get with another guy,,, he didnt tell me that though he just said he couldnt be with me nomore but that he really loved me,,,,i was too madd so i got with this other guy and my ex got madd so he stopped talking to me and he started drinking getting drunk posting up videos of him with other girls at places and that made me even more madd but i realized i still loved him and i left the boyfriend i had after him,,,,,2 months later 0ctober 2011 i started talking to him again and we told eachother we loved eachother and we sort of got back together untill march 2012 he said he wasnt goign to be able to talk to me for about a month because he had a lot of work and he was going to disconnect his phone for a while,,, as of yesterday we started talking again and he asked me to leave with him..
he asked me to marry him a lot of times, but this is where the hard part comes...if i leave with him and marry him i would have to leave CA and my family..i am the main financial help for my family right now if i leave they probably wont even have enough money to pay rent and food and all the debts we have, God "called" me and my siblings to play christian music so if i leave that wouldnt happen, my mom doesnt like him
even though shes the one who really liked him from the beginning, my sister hates him, hes not christian so everyone thinks hes not good enough for me... so i dont know what to do..if i leave ill marry the love of my life, ill have a good job in washington i know that for sure, i could go to a church over in WA, ill be with friend in WA if i need help with anything, i know how to get around....
he thinks im scared of leaving my house, im not scared i just dont want to leave my family in hard times and now im stucckkk!!!
i love him alot and he loves me too but i also love my family :/
help meee:
