The issue isn’t do they love you or even the sin they engage in. The issue is have they been born again. If the answer is no, then it doesn’t matter how kind they are to you, they are forever lost.There was no justification of sin in my response. The bible says a just man sins seven times daily. Acknowledging the reality of our behavior in light of our beliefs isn’t wrong. We ask for forgiveness for a reason.
If the answer is yes, then the Holy Spirit will reveal to them their need to turn from the lustful sin of homosexuality.