What to do to become a better speaker?

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Jesusprincess

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May 5, 2013
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I am struggling with communicating my points across. I fear when I am talking to others and cannot get my focus on the subject spoken. I feel like the words just don't come out right and I am a fool in front of others. HELP!!!!
 
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Speaking to others can be hard but here are a few things to encourage you :)
Be confident in what you're saying, the Bible says worry about nothing pray about everything and believe it's already done

He also says if you open your mouth He will fill it

Be honest and don't overthink it

Hope this helps :)
 
May 3, 2013
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I like your honesty! Congrats!

I understand what you have said and, in fact, you yourself have given a clue to sort it out:
a) Write down an scheme of what you want to say
b) Check those points you want to address the readers or listeners
c) Look inside if you have clarified your ideas and FEELINGS on those things you have liked to write or SPEAK: You cannot talk well on thing you haven´t talked to yourself first.

Remember writing is GIVING INFORMATION. Talking is giving information and receiving it from others, so you have to consider the way you want TO COMMUNICATE. Is it in a written form? So you write THE WAY YOU NOW DID and WE COMMONICATE ideas (and talked). Are you talking to people, without expecting reactions, their giving of a small or a big response? That´s rehearsing, talking in public, same way a man/woman preaches (or reads) any message.

A couple of years ago, I tried STREET PREACHING, That gave me a better lesson than talking in high school or a the university... Why don´t you try giving a preach in a public street? :D
 
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Fromdomlove

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If it is about to communicate the gospel dont overthink just let the holy spirit guide you. If it is about to communicate another topics dont overthink just relax. I have read you and you are a good writer. My english is bad so i remain silent most of the time and the chat lol.