What was the secret to your long, healthy bf/gf relationship? :) Then what happened:(

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Yeah, all that good talk and good times came to a crashing 'The End.'

Whatever happened to the once upon a time happiness and googldy-gawkiness that changed to awkward and disinterestedness?

Is God in any way, shape, or, form a part of your answer why you were dumped, or, dumpee?

If 'no,' who, or, what made you see the tango turning into entanglement?

You can be somewhat personal, if you wish, the Lord leads, but, let's not get too personal, just, as the Lord leads you, help others understand How to sense the pitfalls and potential false floors and trap doors of why it didn't work out in the end .
 
I have a few theories mostly for marriage), but I obviously haven't had a chance to try them out yet.
 
- distance
- when the "he's so much fun" part wears off, you realize there wasn't much of anything else there
- communication. he says one thing, does another.
 
When she realized that she wasn't capable of returning the kind of love that I was committing to her, and also some communication problems related to this.
 
When i realized that his lack of "go get em" attitude was perminate and not something that would go away after he got money to go to college. >_>
 
The relationship failed because there was no depth to her. I can't find a nicer way to say this so I'll put it as least rudely as I can... she was an airhead. And as a deep thinker, this made it impossible for us to connect on an intellectual level.
 
With me he told friend of mine that I didn't show that I loved him
Even though everyone saw I did but I got over it because yes he cheated on me
With on of my so called friends but I was always taught to never hold a grudge
Against someone it beter to forgive someone no matter how much they hurt
You saying sorry makes it better even f your hurt you will be able to forget the pain
 
I listed things re: relationships that didn't work.

For the two that did, I would say: communication, TRUST, faith, TRUST, taking time to have fun together and never forgetting why you came together in the first place, TRUST, having common interests AND separate interests (don't spend every waking moment together..alone time is healthy), TRUST, waiting until you both calm down to discuss important issues, did I say trust?? ;)
 
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