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Ronny

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What do I do if I stay commited for 2 yrs to a woman, became a Christian for her (initially), accept her daughter as my own, later have my own daughter with this woman and then she breaks up with me the day that was originally supposed to be our wedding date (it got postponed) because she says she thinks I couldn't be the spiritual leader of our household (to say the least)? Two days prior to this we were picking out rings.

We had out ups and down sure. I didn't treat her very well at first but soon came to realize I wasn't doing God's work and changed my ways. When I become more Christ like she "dumps" me. Now she won't talk to me.

I honestly am stumped.

Ronny
 
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buckeyegirl700

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I would Pray about the situation and ask God for his guidance on how to deal with this.
 
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Reesegirl

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Wow, Ronny, I'd have to say I agree with Buckeyegirl. It doesn't sound like you have much else you can do except pray that God would soften her heart, and comfort and strengthen you through this trial. When you get the chance to talk to her again, I would pray about that first as well, and then approach her humbly...try to leave the pride and the hurt behind, because that will only make things worse. If she truely is looking for a spiritual leader...and might i add, that is a reasonable concern for any christian woman...she should have thought about that long before she allowed the relationship to get this far. But that is hindsight now, so it doesn't matter.

Above all things, make sure you stay in the word, and in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers. You can't control what she does, but you need to make sure that YOU stay close to the Lord. You said that you became a Christian for her initially, but honestly, being a Christian has nothing to do with your relationship to her; rather, it has everything to do with your relationship to God. If you draw close to him, he will draw close to you, and give you the wisdom and patience to get through this time.

Hope this helps in some way, Ronny. I'll pray for your relationship to be reconciled.
 
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