who would you cuddle with? ammended multiple choice poll

[arwen83]

now SNUGGLING i might not tend to do with a stranger. snuggling to me connotates some nuzzling. some noodling. where a good wholesome cuddle is really just prolonged holding. and ok no one pays me to cuddle them so maybe i'm not a whore per se. but i'm just saying.

little to no standards for who one will get that close to.

NOODLING?!?!!?!?

I'm not gonna even ask!

 

[Tintin]

Okay, so a snuggle is something I'd only ever do with someone I was romantically interested in and committed too. I've never experienced a snuggle, but it sounds comforting.

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

haha noodling. you know. like ''noodle to noodle'' (head to head)?
i'ma check urban dictionary to be sure tho. it's just a phrase i always heard.

GASP. i stand corrected. urban dictionary says it's a sexual term *cries*

omg all the definitions are horrible. forget i said ANYTHING about noodling. 'noodling!!!!' is for marriage. oh my girken.....

 

[Nautilus]

Lol urban dictionary also includes only the worst definitions

 

[lil_christian]

so. i know that people have different comfort levels with the people around them. family, friends, strangers.
and i was just thinking about the varying moral standards people have on physical touch. what feels wrong to you? and what feels like just good old fashioned lovins?
who is it right and wrong to cuddle with?

I kinda found this an interesting question.

Since I'm not very touchy-feely (not even with family, minus my sis.) I don't think I can say I'd cuddle much even if I was in a committed relationship. I dunno though. I might change my mind later in life when I am in a relationship (but I'm trying my absolute best to stay outta the whole "in a relationship" thing till I'm 18). But until then, not a whole lot of cuddling, let alone hugging for me!

 

[Tintin]

iJustWantTheTruth, I think the word you're looking for is 'canoodling'.

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

so what does 'canoodling' mean? and isn't it called noodling for short?

 

[Tintin]

It means kissing and cuddling. I've never heard of 'noodling' before but it sounds like an Asian romance.

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

It means kissing and cuddling. I've never heard of 'noodling' before but it sounds like an Asian romance.

hahahaha. well all i know is i grew up hearing it referring to a couple bein all like gushy and close next to each other. nose to nose, or just super close cuddles. who knows

i don't think i'm gonna use that term anymore tho. haha. urban dictionary just set me STRAIGHT. lol

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

for the record. i wouldn't stick kissing in the category of this thread. any lip action should be reserved for a committed relationship or marraige well. in my opinion. haha. but the cuddle. i dunno

 

[arwen83]

It means kissing and cuddling. I've never heard of 'noodling' before but it sounds like an Asian romance.

Noodling....

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

got it. asian OR italian romance. canoodling.

 

[Tintin]

Thanks, Arwen.

I've never been in a romantic relationship but I think a good boundary for me would be that there's no kissing until the relationship is really serious.

 

[Jullianna]

it's also used to mean like a glutton for something. my sister calls me a hug whore all the time.

That may be, but it may very well be yet ANOTHER word you might want to consider looking up before tossing it around so freely in a Christian forum to be repeated by minors.

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

maybe i'm just absorbing the modern language of a fallen world? but i don't see anything wrong with it.
everything's about context. i think. but if enough people on here tell me they think it's a bad thing to say, i'll reconsider my vocabulary.

 

[Jullianna]

How many Christians do you need to offend? How many would be enough? No worries..the admins will see it soon enough.

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

it's not about that. it's about consensus. if a significant number of people agree with you, i'll consider it. why are you scolding me?

 

[Tintin]

Whore is a valid word but should only be used to describe a prostitute. Also, minors shouldn't even be on Internet discussion forums.

 

[Jullianna]

6 other people apparently found it offensive, along with several other things in this thread. What number would form a consensus?

Why am I tell you this? Because you are my friend and I love you.

 

[ijustwanttheTruth]

it's officially in urban dictionary. haha. i checked Urban Dictionary: cuddle whore

thanks for contributing tintin