who would you cuddle with?

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who would you could with?

  • I would only cuddle with someone i was in a committed relationship with

    Votes: 22 36.1%

  • I would cuddle with a friend of the opposite gender

    Votes: 13 21.3%

  • I would cuddle with a friend only of the same gender

    Votes: 2 3.3%

  • I am only going to cuddle with my future spouse

    Votes: 6 9.8%

  • I would cuddle with strangers

    Votes: 3 4.9%

  • I would cuddle with someone i was interested in romantically, even if i wasn't committed to them

    Votes: 5 8.2%

  • Ii would cuddle with you, truthie

    Votes: 2 3.3%

  • I want to cuddle with Jesus

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Total voters
    61
Well...until I'm in a relationship with a guy I suppose I'll just cuddle with....my pillow. A pillow can never resist cuddling. Haha. :p
 
I agree.
One should have boundaries and i have seen cuddles be manipulated with and used in sneaky ways with "back thought" behind it.

I used to be to open with cuddles because i am such an affectionate person who loves intimacy but that does not mean i should be intimate with anyone nor cuddle with anyone.

Some cuddles do not feel good and hugs either, just does not feel right and how to tell the one to "back off" in a polite but firm manner.


Sometimes one hugs to be polite because its like a tradition like the "kiss on cheek greeting" .
sometimes the other party clings on to you.

I only recently learnt how important it is to set bounties and that all hugs are not good and that the "hugger" can be dangerous and manipulative and the list goes on.

Same if one has family who hugs you " in vain" and it just feels so wrong like story of a dieing rich bloke who's family hugs and hugs but its to be in his will and in vain somehow or the woman or man who wants to have sex or get power of someone and is clingy and not respect a no.


I never get touched and really really would love a touch but noticed just other day i felt uncomfterble a man was demonstrating a product on my wrist and rubbed my wrist for long time and that made me feel uncomfterble actually.
not aroused just uncomfterble.
Maybe should of said no to trying product.

Like the pulp fiction foot rub lol

no was nothing like that but if you think how rubbing a hand or fingers while holding hands can be more intense and intimate than a sex act.


It can be a bit pretencious the hug thing sometimes and over worked and done in vain or for wrong reasons and or not respecting intergrity and boundaries and sacred space.


Intimate relationship with cuddles and affection would be wonderful.

sometimes it may feel wrong, just wrong and one should be able speak up about it and not "whats wrong"....this is wrong, it feels wrong.... "back off please" with all due respect...

Hugs and cuddles are not always good.
even if they look good.
 
sidekick said:
Well...until I'm in a relationship with a guy I suppose I'll just cuddle with....my pillow. A pillow can never resist cuddling. Haha. :p
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:D pillows are good .
I used to cuddle my dog but she is not living with me at moment (miss her )
But same there i must respect her space and when she walks away i should not forse cuddle her because i want to cuddle.I would lay with her in my arms in bed in mornings.
I live alone with fish now and she is not so affectionate and a touch scary even as she jumps at me (reminds me of minature jaws)
But she is affectionate in a different way perhaps as she swims to my finger and chases it.
I could jump in aquarium with her, water feels so warm and delightful.
It just feels so comfterble, enjoyable temperature but prefer the seas swim round in.


Had a massage once where he started rubbing between my legs.
(that was really uncomfterble)
Most massages had they keep a distance but do the massage goodness in a respectable way respecting the space and sex (unless one goes to erotic massage parlour)
 
I'd cuddle with the doll i had made to look just like descyple...

I would!
 
It depends. If my mate is contorted then I resort to a lovely pillow I've had forever. My mom made it for me one Christmas. It's this cool red and black squared pillow that has a misfits patch sewn on it. lol. Whatever, go ahead laugh!
 
maybe we should start a thread of "Who wouldn't you cuddle with?"
 
Maybe something's wrong with me but I would only cuddle with my WIFE, and only AFTER she's really my WIFE, not before. Strange that there's no such option in the choices.

I think there are too many "cuddly Christians" nowadays, IMHO.

Well I may also cuddle with my baby or toddler. :)
 
I figured replying to a thread made by Ijustwantthetruth would be all sorts of awkward. :D

As to the question posed by the thread, I don't actually know. I've had so few chances to cuddle with anyone that it's even a mystery to me.
 
Well, I'm not really a cuddly type person but Keren I'd cuddle with you any day! hahaha Happy Birthday Ker. <3
 
awwwwwwww shuuuukkkssss :D i love you guyssss ^_^ thanks for the love :D and for those of you who were worried...i only ended up cuddling gals today :D
 
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