Why do men suddenly disappear?
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There are many nice men but they are/were never interested and most are married. I've been to all those Dutch sites. If God would have wanted it I would have met someone, but He didn't. I should stop complaining though, you're right.
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Rosesrock
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I'm always intrigued by these titles. I know it's a lure to get me to read the OP so kudos to those who come up with these.
First I'm sorry the OP apparently was hurt because not only do men leave..women find the easy way out and not return calls or just disappear too. No that it's the right thing but these blanket gender statements crack me up although unfair.
I would say because of high stress one doesn't want to face. Of... Needy women who won't take I'm sorry I'm not interested as an answer or.....
The grass was greener somewhere. But all in all let's say that no all men are this way. And when it happens maybe.. .. Just maybe it's not a bad thing.
First I'm sorry the OP apparently was hurt because not only do men leave..women find the easy way out and not return calls or just disappear too. No that it's the right thing but these blanket gender statements crack me up although unfair.
I would say because of high stress one doesn't want to face. Of... Needy women who won't take I'm sorry I'm not interested as an answer or.....
The grass was greener somewhere. But all in all let's say that no all men are this way. And when it happens maybe.. .. Just maybe it's not a bad thing.
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JustWhoIAm
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I think men disappear sometimes because we can be big chickens?
There might be some truth to that somehow. Myself, I walk away from the henhouse every time because it's a waste of (spiritual) assets to do anything but God's will in my situation, so it's kind of like "OK, it is what it is and all the things are all the things, beauty is beauty but the kingdom is the kingdom. I trust God to resolve it all above what people say, considering that everyone has their own opinion."
Sexual sin is the worst, too, because that one seriously depletes a person spiritually (that's biblical).
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Tintin
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Right. And I'm not sure why this 'encouraging' thread had to be unearthed again, after so long.
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JustWhoIAm
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''Statistics show that with the vast majority of marital partings it is the woman who leaves''
Why Women Leave | Family Tips | HCCUA.ORG
Contrary to the politically view that it is men who leave most often, it is women who are the majority of those who leave. This has been well established for many years.
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Ugly
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I suppose to balance out the thread that was actually intended to be encouraging about men. But we know the Singles has a history or looking down on men, despite all the protests otherwise.
I'm single, female, emotionally healthy and 53. Very few of the eligible single, emotionally healthy men my age want to date. They don't really want to be in community either. America really doesn't do community well...We are so fixated on being tough, and able to take care of ourselves. 
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Ugly
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I'm of the age where everyones starting to get divorces, so i just have to hold out a little longer. Of course then they'll all be bitter and untrusting. Well, there went my plan. =P
Sorry guys. Don't take anything personal. All nonsense I spout is like based on the 3 or 4 people spoke to and the 3 guys I dated or married. I saw another guy here do it too. All women are like this or that. Wait, that's not true.
It's just a false belief you make out of disappointment. They do that too when people didn't get healed. Oh God doesn't heal anymore. Make a whole theology.
I asked God but He didn't say why not and now I got grumpy. Someone even said that God said to him He had someone for me, but not now. I don't believe it. I can't live with a constant false hope. I have to cut my feelings off and concentrate on other things. Thing is it's easier to be single when you believe that marriage will be monstrous anyway. When I don't think or talk about relationships everything goes great. I'd just better stop posting about such things.
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Tintin
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I have no problems with you, mate. Thanks for sharing. It's just that we have enough male-bashing threads for my liking. I don't think you had anything to do with it, any way. God bless you.
I hope this video I watched today will help you. God be with you Tinkerbell725!
[video=youtube;fxJgT7YMRlg]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxJgT7YMRlg[/video]
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Ugly
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What puzzles me is, after all these years in which it has been repeatedly proven that women are the chief causes of breakups (both marital and unmarried romantic ones) why is it still believed by so many that men are the ones who disappear the most and cause these breakups?
I don't normally watch programming on tv other than sports, news, old movies, and cooking shows. But you cannot help briefly seeing every once in a while Jerry Springer or Maury Povich highlights of shows with titles such as "I'm breaking up with my boyfriend or husband because he cheats". Then after a while the show reveals that she cheated a dozen more times than he ever did. Shows such as these have been shown dozens of times.
Maybe the OP doesn't have anything to offer HIM ... i know when im not interested in a woman or she doesn't have what im looking for that i just leave or go away ---- i dont feel the need to have to explain that the her or anybody ----
Repeatedly proven? I think it's the same, no idea actually and how can you make statistics on it? They always say it was the other's fault.
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Funny, though, how on Springer's or Povich's shows when these women make these complaints and then videos expose them for the two or three timers that they are. The link I provided does make the point but we can never know with full accuracy as to the actual amounts of such breakups because, as you say, so many people like to point the finger at others rather than themselves.