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MrHonest said:
Who is more good looking men or women?
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WOMEN!



Why do women think we men can pick up their little traits/
clues as to if she likes us/or even doesn't like us? Sorry ladies I think most of us Christian men are very clueless on this.

And I hope this is not crossing the line but why do women go in groups to the restroom when out in public? :confused:
 
Why do women think we men can pick up their little traits/
clues as to if she likes us/or even doesn't like us? Sorry ladies I think most of us Christian men are very clueless on this.

Women are clueless when guys like us too, so...beats me.


And I hope this is not crossing the line but why do women go in groups to the restroom when out in public? :confused:

We are amending the womens handbook, a version of which is kept in all public ladies rooms. The need for this becomes more urgent if any guy, anywhere, anytime ever figures out any part thereof. :)
 
if it's a scetchy or unsafe area, i don't go anywhere alone even a restroom. other than that i dont mind being by myself.
 
Sometimes I think chivarly is dead, especially today, and then someone does something to remind me it's not. So, had car problems, pulled up in this tiny drive near an old store, with my hazards on. It's obvious, if you stop to look, I had car problems. So this guy was there for quite a bit, leaves, doesn't even stop to see if I need help. And yes, I could easily see it was a guy. And this was right off a major highway. So it got me thinking how pathetic it was that someone couldn't even take 2 secs of his time to see if another person needed help.

So, about an hour and a half later, the tow truck finally got there, (another story in it's self, but not his fault.) Anyway, as we were walking back to the cab of his truck, he attempted to open the door for me, only wasn't able to cause keys were in cab and the door on my side was lock. But still, it's the thought that counts.
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So I guess, guys, do you ever stop to see if someone needs help? And if not, why do you decide not to?

I know for me, as a woman, quite often I will stop to see if someone needs a phone, especially if it's another woman, unless someone else is already there helping, or I can't stop safely.
 
I do see if people, particularly women, need help. But do keep your senses about you, men, because the damsel trap is not unheard of. (Woman pretending to be distressed covering for a mugger.)
 
violakat said:
Sometimes I think chivarly is dead, especially today, and then someone does something to remind me it's not. So, had car problems, pulled up in this tiny drive near an old store, with my hazards on. It's obvious, if you stop to look, I had car problems. So this guy was there for quite a bit, leaves, doesn't even stop to see if I need help. And yes, I could easily see it was a guy. And this was right off a major highway. So it got me thinking how pathetic it was that someone couldn't even take 2 secs of his time to see if another person needed help.

So, about an hour and a half later, the tow truck finally got there, (another story in it's self, but not his fault.) Anyway, as we were walking back to the cab of his truck, he attempted to open the door for me, only wasn't able to cause keys were in cab and the door on my side was lock. But still, it's the thought that counts.
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So I guess, guys, do you ever stop to see if someone needs help? And if not, why do you decide not to?

I know for me, as a woman, quite often I will stop to see if someone needs a phone, especially if it's another woman, unless someone else is already there helping, or I can't stop safely.
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Yes, I do stop. Do I always stop, no. Why? Usually for shameful reasons like not being late to work or some other grounded-yet-lame excuse. Now, if people are not waiting on me or expecting me to be somewhere, do I stop? Usually.

There have been times when I don't, and I apologize for those. I'm certainly far from perfect, but I'm working on it.

I would kindly beg to differ on the judgement of chivalry's demise. I certainly try my utmost to live by by the principles of Christianity, Chivalry, and Civility. Granted, it may be difficult at times, especially in today's society, but I strive to nonetheless.

So, along those lines, I often try to help those homeless I see around the streets, but often do not. I'd like to ask a similar question, then, does anyone stop to help such as these?
 
AsifinPassing said:
Yes, I do stop. Do I always stop, no. Why? Usually for shameful reasons like not being late to work or some other grounded-yet-lame excuse. Now, if people are not waiting on me or expecting me to be somewhere, do I stop? Usually.

There have been times when I don't, and I apologize for those. I'm certainly far from perfect, but I'm working on it.

I would kindly beg to differ on the judgement of chivalry's demise. I certainly try my utmost to live by by the principles of Christianity, Chivalry, and Civility. Granted, it may be difficult at times, especially in today's society, but I strive to nonetheless.

So, along those lines, I often try to help those homeless I see around the streets, but often do not. I'd like to ask a similar question, then, does anyone stop to help such as these?
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I do forget if I'm in a rush, I probably won't stop. And as for the homeless. I haven't often help. I do when I feel an overwheliming need to, but not always. But it does break my heart when I see them.
 
Jullianna;732483 [SIZE=3 said:
And I hope this is not crossing the line but why do women go in groups to the restroom when out in public? :confused: [/SIZE]

We are amending the womens handbook, a version of which is kept in all public ladies rooms. The need for this becomes more urgent if any guy, anywhere, anytime ever figures out any part thereof. :)
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LOL, that is priceless.:D:cool:! I will have to ask my maintenance buddy on Overnights to get me that when he works Wednesday Night and cleans the ladies room.
 
Beloved57 said:
LOL, that is priceless.:D:cool:! I will have to ask my maintenance buddy on Overnights to get me that when he works Wednesday Night and cleans the ladies room.
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We hide the book in a safe that men will never find. So, it's no use asking him.
 
The guy handbook is in every garage in the nation, scribbled on shop rags. It tells us how to be the most sensitive guy you can imagine. Unfortunately, we spilled grease on it, so we can't actually put it into practice.
 
If I had to generalize, I'd give the edge to women on being more fickle. But there are many ways to look at it.
 
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