Why do women ________________?

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Why does it appear that so many women are insecure with themselves, even the pretty ones?
 
Because we are constantly told how ugly we are by the media. Not to mention really angry girls are vicious.
 
Because magazines and the media show us that we need to be perfect and flawless. Many women compare themselves to pictures in a magazine that have been airbrushed and edited to perfection. They don't realize and accept that God made them beautiful the way they are.
 
violakat said:
Because we are constantly told how ugly we are by the media. Not to mention really angry girls are vicious.
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christiancollegegirl said:
Because magazines and the media show us that we need to be perfect and flawless. Many women compare themselves to pictures in a magazine that have been airbrushed and edited to perfection. They don't realize and accept that God made them beautiful the way they are.
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It really is a shame how the media influences the way we think and value people. I saw a video on how magazines use photoshop on their pictures and it makes me feel that magazines and television has distorted our perception of beauty and what is "attractive".
 
Megatron said:
revenge for playing with ours ;)
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Megatron I never play with guys. A guy I was talking to ( pastor/ chaplain) said I would make a wonderful wife, wanted to know what my dream wedding would be, and my dream ring. he was planing to see me but he told me over text at 5am that he would not be coming out to see me and that he would be backing out of getting to know me
 
Why do women test a man's love for her by making him choose between her and the things that he loves most,
and they usually do this in a way that is so unreasonable and so reckless that it makes a man go crazy,
that the moment she gets her assurance, the man is almost beyond repair or recognition.

THIS... I honestly, would like to know. Ladies, some help pls?

:D
 
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In my experience, two kinds of people (male or female) play the "if you love me" card: Those who are incredibly insecure and/or manipulators
 
Jullianna said:
In my experience, two kinds of people (male or female) play the "if you love me" card: Those who are incredibly insecure and/or manipulators
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And if you really loved someone you wouldn't say IF YOU LOVE ME and manpulate another person for your own selfish desire.

I learned a long time ago that everything in life is about choice. With choices are consequences. Some are good and some are bad.
I try to never do something because I am obligated to do it. I do it because I WANT to and because I love that person. Whether it is a boyfriend, a friend or whoever. I try to have a good attitude about things as well, and the only time I do something out of obligation is when it comes to my son. I mean I am obligated to care for him, but I also want to do that. I also want him to clean his room, yet he doesn't feel obligated. :/
 
framester said:
Why do women test a man's love for her by making him choose between her and the things that he loves most,
and they usually do this in a way that is so unreasonable and so reckless that it makes a man go crazy,
that the moment she gets her assurance, the man is almost beyond repair or recognition.

THIS... I honestly, would like to know. Ladies, some help pls?

:D
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If we are talking about commitment, a woman needs to know that she is the most important in the man's heart, after God, of course. So if there's a clash of interest there, even if not intentional, she'll make sure she holds the place she needs.
 
Elizabeth619 said:
I am soooo blessed to be 5'11 to where I dont need heels. i am already tall enough and dont have a desire to look taller.
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YEAH, a girl who's taller than me.

Personally, I like the way heels look, but they are detrimental to my health. I can not tell you how many times I have nearly broken my neck by tripping up in them. Oh wait, I trip up in flats too, NM. I guess I'll stick with what Elizabeth said, I'm tall enough and don't need to look taller.
 
violakat said:
YEAH, a girl who's taller than me.

Personally, I like the way heels look, but they are detrimental to my health. I can not tell you how many times I have nearly broken my neck by tripping up in them. Oh wait, I trip up in flats too, NM. I guess I'll stick with what Elizabeth said, I'm tall enough and don't need to look taller.
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After church yesterday I had to run by the grocery store to get some things for lunch. I had me 3 year old niece with me and for some dumb reason I didnt put her in a shopping cart. I let her walk....well, I did wear 3 inch heels yesterday. Dont know why i did that.

I was drug across the grocery store by a 3 year old while wearing heels. I about sprained my ankle in the soup aisle. :/
 
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